calliecritturs
Posted : 10/1/2007 9:41:04 PM
I'm going to add to what jewilee said above -- and stress -- you can NOT do this in **one** visit.
He's picking up on everyone's general anxiety -- and you essentially have to turn this around and make it a wonderful, low-pressure place to visit.
when she says to go near the door and treat (in the various steps) -- she's meaning going to the vet several times without even going IN.
It also helps to have the various techs and receptionists come out TO THE CAR just to give some treats and generally "ooh and ahhhj" and what a "GREAT DOG" over Jaia.
this is one of those things that's way way better done *before* something bad happens than after -- I never EVER go to the vet without treats. A separate bag of treats for EACH dog. More than one sometimes!
Remember I've got the dog who has had IMHA -- I can't tell you how many really HORRIBLY painful procedures Billy's had done over the past year. Taking blood to the point where the veins in his paws and neck are actually becoming scarred and hard to penetrat! He's literally had hundreds and hundreds of blood draws.
But with my silly little method he CAN NOT WAIT to get in the door!! Because he knows it's not just food .. but it's that people are *excited* about getting to give HIM treats. It's game time - it's FUN time -- it's ... "you're my FAVORITE DOG" time.
this is the dog who, when we went in the FIRST time, he tried to BITE the vet who dared try to look in his hurting swollen raw icky ears!!
I drove all the way to freakin Deland (30 miles away) just so Billy could go and 'visit'. I've been known to spend a $40 vet visit JUST on a 'check up' if it will solidify something like this. but at this point the vet can literally do ANY THING AT ALL to him.
Vets honestly hate to be "the bad guy". They hate having to hurt them. so handing a vet a bag of something yummy and saying "he can have ALL that's in that bag ... have fun!" makes the vet feel like you cared enough to PLAN so he'll have an easier time working on your animal. Frankly, it works.
I've gone in at times armed with separate bags of treats for each tech and the receptionist. Now maybe there's only one broken up treat in each bag -- but BILLY knows he gets ALL in the bag. The tech doesn't have to 'stop'. Everyone appreciates it.
Jaia went in for something that hurt. And I can promise you that whatever is going on NOW **hurts** too. So frankly, if it were me I would be giving Jaia at least two valerian root capsules at least 40 minutes before you get to the vet -- OR EVEN BETTER get some valerian tincture and mix two *full* droppersfull with a teaspoonfull of peanut butter. Give it about 5 minutes before you want to get out of the car.
Tell the vet it's like valium. (valium is the pharmaceutical they invented to mimic valerian root) So then if he has to sedate Jaia he'll know what he can do. Valerian is a nervine herb -- it is *not* a sedative. it is merely a relaxant. But it doesn't give brain fog -- so you'll have to talk Jaia thru not being nervous.
and I know this is something you *know* with your head -- but frankly, you may want to take some valerian yourself before you go. Because when a dog tosses off both collar and leash and tries your patience so severely, then it's a foregone conclusion that YOU will be a nervous wreck about it too. And that's not conducive to a good outcome.
In fact, to be completely honest, for this ONE time because it has to be this week and so close on to the last time Jaia freaked out, I'd probably have the vet call something in to Walgreens for you to give Jaia once you get IN the car. then simply drive around until it's effective (or you'll have to carry a big dog like that TO the car). Once there, call the vet and have techs come out to carry the unconscious dog IN.
If Jaia can just SKIP this one memory it might be better. Then you can take your time to retrain. But it will take something prescripton to properly sedate the dog like this -- but it's probably worth it.