Angelique
Posted : 10/28/2006 11:22:00 AM
"There is no equality in a dog's mind"...I can't remember where I read that, but I have found it to be true.
Their behavior from moment to moment is a form of communication of "who is who" and "where do we stand" in any given relationship at the moment the dominant or submissive behavior is displayed.
A "dominant" behavior can be a question of "
Who's in charge here?" - the dog is if it is allowed, or it can be a statement of "
I'm in charge here" - the dog is if it is allowed. It is a language of sorting out heirarchy so that we can then procede on to other things with the leader (dominant being) directing the activities/making decisions and the follower (submissive being) complying with the direction.
If a dog puts it's paws up on another dog's back and elevates itself above the other dog and the other dog lets it, this can be a form of communication of who is who and who is the more dominant animal between the two. The dog who is "submitting" to being stood on, is not the more "dominant" being at this moment in this interaction.
If a dog jumps up uninvited and you allow it, it may simply be saying to the dog that "they" are the "dominant" being in the relationship at this moment because they feel free to jump on you, and by you allowing it you may be agreeing to taking the submissive role in the relationship.
This isn't about the dog trying to take over (the way humans think of it) or being "aggressive" with you. It's just one of the many things they do in their everyday interactions with us or each other which communicates the current status between any two individuals.
Many people cannot accept that a dog will not view us as an equal partner. It's a romantic view which does not honor the dog as a dog. Most dogs which become confused in their relationships with people become so because we humans do a lot of things (inadvertantly) which communicate "submission" to a dog in our efforts to be fair, friendly, or an equal partner.
More than this, the constant flip-flop many humans communicate (with their dogs) by acting like a leader through "dominant" signals one minute, and acting like a follower through "submissive" signals the next can be quite confusing to dogs, IMO.