Ixas_girl
Posted : 4/30/2007 1:05:46 PM
Yes! Your house rules should be all about the permissions you grant! Yes, start it right away!
This falls under
NILIF or
Pack Leader house rules. It's the same as having your dog sit calmly before you'll put his food bowl down, sit calmly before you'll put his collar on for a walk, not enter certain rooms or sit on furniture without your permission, etc.
My dog sits on the floor next to my bed. She doesn't come up till I pat the bed and say "here, girl." The way I taught her was by pushing her off everytime she came up without permission. When I pushed her off, I did it gently but firmly, and without emotion, no anger, no giggling, no verbal or physical negotiations. Just neutral, matter of fact. She didn't find that to be a fun game, and quickly learned, that being invited is *the happy, yummy, lovey* way to be on the bed. If you don't want to push your dog off the bed, then don't let the dog in the bedroom until you are prepared to remain at the ready to block the dog from coming on your bed without permission. Don't teach your dog that sneaking will get the better of you, be prepared!
If you let the dog come on the bed without permission, and you do nothing about it, you are training a behavior that will take many repetitions of counter-training to extinguish. You have to be really consistent. You can't let him "get away with it" sometimes!