AJ P
Posted : 1/12/2007 9:00:53 PM
I see nothing wrong with 'play-thumping.' If I stop what I'm doing to lean over and drum my hands on my mutt's side the tail starts wagging and the happy, open-mouthed smile pops up, immediately. Especially with bigger dogs that fall in the large or 'giant' breed scale--they appreciate the stimulation and the play. I would never playfully paddle my mom's toy poodles the way I drum on my giant mutt.
Out of curiousity, may I pose a question to this general topic? I want it to be understood that the human involved is NOT ME, and the animal involved has been dead for 13 years, so nobody is personally involved or in need of protection or any of that. [

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Situation: Family adopts mutt from local shelter. Dog has blue eyes and appears to be some kind of husky-mix, is rather young, and happens to be pregnant. She is on the hot-list for being destroyed, since nobody wants to adopt a pregnant bitch. Once she throws the pups and is able to do more than waddle, it quickly becomes apparent that what they have adopted is a wolf-dog.
That she is a hybrid is not immediately an issue; the adopting family live in a log cabin out in the forest, miles from anything but the occasional farm house. They have three young children, one an infant, and the dog is gentle as a lamb with them, watches them closely, follows them everywhere they go. She also loves the mother.
The problem is the father, who the dog
hates. (It deserves the bold.) The dog rapidly becomes more and more aggressive with the father. She clearly feels that this is HER family and he is a threat to it. The children must be protected at all costs. The mother is not to be touched! It begins with growling and escalates to physical attacks within a couple of months. She leaps on the father and throws him into a lake for hugging his wife, then dives in the water and tries to hold his head under. She leaps up and bites into his arm or hands, and aggressively herds him away from his children. The children are the only ones who can touch her when she is like this.
Eventually enough is enough. All attempts to train the dog to stop this aggressive behavior have failed. (And believe me, an endless parade of attempts were made.) One day she puts a long gash in the father's arm and refuses to allow him in the house. He wraps his arms up in towels and oven mitts covered with duct tape, takes her to the garage, and the two of them hash it out. Literally. By the end of it the towels are just rags hanging from the tape and the dog limps for a week. After that week, she is respectful, polite, and as protective of the father as she is of the rest of the family.
My question is:
Was this necessary? We see all kinds of media (I'm not talking about CM here) about the pack mentality. We know that hybrids are generally expected to challenge, sometimes quite literally, their owners for dominance. The only place for this animal to go would have been back to the shelter, back to the high-kill list. She was invaluable when it came to watching the children--I should know, I was the oldest one! But does anyone have experience with the issues that surround hybrids? Do the same rules always apply? Was my dad wrong to throw down the gauntlet and take on her challenge? What would you have done?