Wow where to begin. There are so many layers to my disagreement I'm not real sure where to start. I used to be a big fan, so maybe I can try to put together where and how I disagree by tracing my own evolution. But in short I feel that he is poisoning the relationship people (especially JQP who only gets their information from him) have with their dogs.
Back when I discovered him (way back during the beginning of his first season on TV), he didn't really change what I was already doing. I trained traditionally and he was confirming everything I was doing and thinking, which sure was a nice cozy feeling. Where I came from in dealing with my dogs was this: dogs are dogs, we are people, the dog listens to the human or else. Dogs who do not listen to humans are dominant, and the human needs to assert their alpha standing. On their end, dogs want nothing more in their whole entire lives than to be dominated by a human. A dog who resists this is unbalanced and needs correction. Once he's corrected, he'll see the error of his ways and fall in to line. A dog who is not being lead by a dominant human is not a happy dog. Happy dogs are always submissive dogs. Sound familiar?
When I first saw Cesar on TV I was like, "Finally someone who really understands!" And to be sure, the people he has on his show are pretty much universally showing an appalling negligence in the dog training and leadership departments, often accompanied with a complete lack of understanding of a dog's basic physical needs. I'll never argue with the fact that most of the people on that show need a serious attitude adjustment. I just don't agree with the direction of the adjustment.
I think his incredible over-emphasis of the dominance/alpha paradigm can and does poison the relationship people have with their dogs. I know it did mine. I loved my dogs to pieces (I had one who passed before I changed my ways, and Conrad is my crossover) but I can now see looking back that I was never able to fully develop a relationship with them because I felt that I had to constantly prove who was boss and that if I didn't, they'd try to take over. There was no room for my dogs to simply be confused or make a mistake, so I was constantly angry and upset with them. Training was a battle of wills rather than a teaching experience, and incredibly frustrating. Every mistake on my dog's part had to be met with a correction of some kind to prove that I was in complete control. I didn't even buy dog treats because a dog should work for me just because I'm me, not for a treat. And that just made it so incredibly personal. When you feel that a dog should always perform for you simply because of what you've proved to it about your status, and it doesn't, that makes the dog's failure not about confusion or a mistake but about YOU. And it can make you hate your dog when you start falling in to that. And when you start to hate your dog, you can do some pretty awful stuff to your dog.
Keep in mind as I say all that that I've been a practicing and lay-ordained Zen Buddhist for the past 9 years. I am not a violent person at all. I've never hit another human in anger. My teacher gave me the ordination name of Jigen which means "compassion source". I'm a complete bleeding heart.
So when I say that I'm not proud of some of the things I did to my dogs in the name of "dominance" I mean it really eats me up. I alpha-rolled, I scruffed (what my husband refers to as a "shake-job"), I leash-popped, and when I learned about putting the leash behind the ears from Cesar, I was all over it. Wow that made Conrad fall into line quick. Because
it hurt. And here I was talking to my dad, showing him how to walk Conrad and telling him, "Oh, don't worry, you can't hurt him." What complete BS. If it didn't hurt, it wouldn't work. If it felt like a pleasant tickle, why would it keep Conrad walking next to me instead of pulling? And now I have to deal with the fact that I hurt my dog on purpose to make him do what I wanted. Repeatedly and the whole time thinking that I was actually fulfilling my dog's deepest, most pressing desires: to be dominated forcefully.
That is what bothers me most about him and his show: his philosophy of what dogs are and what they want and need. Since I've changed my thinking, I've come to see that dogs are simply animals. They are animals that we are uniquely able to emotionally bond with, but they are no different fundamentally from a rat, a cat, a dolphin or a chimpanzee. I don't expect my cats to always listen to me just because I'm me, so why do I expect it from my dogs? If my dogs are having an issue, either a general behavioral issue or a training issue, I approach it now from a standpoint of trying to figure out what they are confused about, how are they mistaken in their beliefs, and how can I help to clear that up for them? It removes "ME" from the situtation, and that makes their various foibles and mistakes less a personal affront to me and more just a learning opportunity. Training is now about them and what they can do and how they can learn and not about how I can prove my status and how they are "challenging" me.
I actually got into an argument with my parents over Thanksgiving dinner about him. They have never in their lives had dogs, the only ones that they're really familiar with are mine, but we live in a very doggy area and everyone here has dogs, so they see them all the time. The argument actually kept me awake that night, though I'm sure they don't even remember it, because it was just so ridiculous and I was so not being able to get my point across because it was a raucous family dinner with about 3 conversations going on at once and my thoughts on the topic are nuanced and complex and don't go well with 2 bottles of wine. But being that they aren't dog people, it gave me an interesting insight into how people who watch the show not ever having done any outside reasearch percieve it (and my dad is a PhD and college professor and no dummy). They were totally unaware that Cesar has never done any coursework in animal behavior and that his pronouncements about dogs and dog behavior are simply his perceptions and hunches, not proven scientific fact. My dad at one point actually says, "Well, he has discovered that there's this noise that dogs really hate! That Tsst! noise!" And I was like, omg dad please just stop now. He's discovered nothing, and that noise he himself says is just a way to get their attention. But I can't even tell you how many times I've seen people walking arout tssting dogs willy-nilly like its magic, so I know dad isn't alone in that perception.
I tried to explain to my folks that there's other ways to train dogs that don't require you to dominate them constantly and their argument was: look at all these untrained dogs out there, so clearly there's a problem. And, see, that's not a logical argument (geez dad, you're a philosophy professor!). To me that's like advocating spanking by saying, well clearly there's a lot of crappy parenting going on out there. I pointed to my own dogs, who were in the room and behaving splendidly and said look at Marlowe--I've never trained him that way. Their response was that "most people aren't smart enough to do that." Uh? No, it's just that there's not a hit TV show saying how to do it and it's actually monsterously easy. Way easier than "Cesar's Way" which requires you to have a forceful personality, total lack of fear of dogs, and to be kinethesiologically gifted (there was a very fawning article in the New Yorker last year that I couldn't in the end really argue with because it is true: the man has a gifted

hysical presence).
I'll end by saying that there are some things that he, and pretty much every other dog trainer, DVM and behaviorist on the planet, advocates. More walks for dogs: yes! Though I've heard that in actual fact he thinks that dogs need 8 solid hours of excercise a day (funny, he doesn't say that on his show!) and I won't go that far. But a couple hours a day, give or take depending on individual: yes. And also that suburban yards are not a substitute for structured exercise. The 8 hours thing I suspect is one of his tricks for producing "magical transformations" in dogs. Yes, a tired dog is a happy dog, but a forced-into-exhaustion dog is a shut-down dog and I'm sure would appear quite "cured" of it's problems after a few days at his center on the treadmill for hours.
I'm also pretty frequently appalled at the lack of training of any kind people do with their dogs. But maybe more people would do it if it was
fun for both the human and the dog and not a battle of wills. Last night we met some family members of some friends of mine and their adorable 2 year old Portuguese water dog, Bode. The wife had never had dogs before and as we were leaving she confided in me that her husband was always telling her that she need to act like an alpha dog in order to train Bode. She said, "I don't want to act like an alpha dog!" So I told her that there's good
news: as long as she's got opposable thumbs and uses them to control Bode's resources, she'll never have to lay a hand on him or make an alpha display. I wonder how many people who've never really trained their dogs haven't done so because they think that dog training means you have to hurt and bully your dog into submission and they don't feel comfortable doing that.
I'm sorry that at one time I did. I apologize to Conrad every day. And no, he has not taken over the house (yet!).
Sorry that was so long. I've really developed quite a hate-on for this entire school of dog training, probably because there's no zeal like the zeal of the converted
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