glenmar
Posted : 3/9/2006 7:23:38 AM
This pup left her litter at SIX weeks?? Wow. Poor little thing. Most places its illegal to transfer ownership prior to EIGHT weeks and I never let pups go until TEN weeks. Those extra weeks with the litter are crucial to the pups social development.
In general, pups can hold it for an hour for every month of age, plus one. So at 7 weeks, the max you can expect her to hold it is about 2.5 hours. You don't say what breed she is, but typically the smaller the breed, the less holding capacity they have.
It's been awhile since I've had ONE pup since I foster and get them in bunches....but, last time I did, I put the crate right beside my bed, up so the pup could SEE me. In the wild, a pup left alone will DIE, so it's natural for her to be terrified when she is separated from you. Put the crate in your bedroom right next to the bed. Wrap a hot water bottle in a towel and put THAT in with her to keep her warm and comforted. You can get special aids, like the snuggle pup, but I've never used one of those myself. When she whines at nite, put your fingers through the crate and sooth her. If she settles, she's just frightened. If she doesn't, she needs to potty and you need to get up and take her. And I'd be grabbing a towel and carrying her because at that age, when she needs to go, she REALLY needs to go.
Since she IS frightened of the crate, I'd suggest an exercise pen for the times that you need to go out. Daytime crate training can come a bit later, once she's a bit more settled in and less frightened.
I don't honestly think that she's in manipulation mode...I think she's a tiny baby who is still terrified of being abandoned and left to die. She still should be with her litter, so she's going to need extra TLC for a few more weeks. Be sure that all of your interactions with her are slow, steady and gentle...she's about to enter a fear stage and if handled improperly (ie: soothing her cuz the big bad broom scared her) she'll carry those fears for the rest of her life.