sandra johnson
Posted : 2/11/2007 8:30:21 AM
Your dog is experiencing seperation anxiety and this is very common in shelter/rescue dogs. My advice is to get the dog accustomed to being left alone but do this little by little. It may take some time and you can't rush this.Start out by putting your dog in the crate. Pick up your keys, purse, whatever you take with you when you leave the house.Ignore the dog!!! Don't say anything to the dog because the more you fuss over it, the more anxious the dog becomes.Go outside, lock the door just as you would normally do and do this so your dog can hear you. Stay outside for a couple of minutes then come back in. Ignore the dog. Go into another room for a little while then repeat the above. This time when you go out, stay a little longer. This shows the dog that you
will return. When you let the dog out of the crate, don't say anything to the dog, just let her out. If she tries to jump on you or tries to get your attention, ignore her. It's going to take time for your dog to learn that you will return because your dog lost it's home before and is now anxious about being abandoned again. Not that dogs analyze this, it's just that when they experience abandonment, they don't forget it.Before I leave my house I put one dog in her crate, give her a treat and close the door without saying anything except, "crate". My other two dogs don't stay in crates but I don't say anything to them either. When I return, my dogs are very excited to see me (just as lower ranking pack members would behave when the pack leader returns) but I ignore them. I open my mail, put my things away, take off my shoes, all the while my dogs are on the other side of a gate that seperates my kitchen from the rest of the house. After a few minutes I let my crated dog out, go to the back door, have them all sit and wait, then let them out into the yard. All I have said to them is, "Sit. Wait. Go."If I made a huge fuss about seeing them, they would just go crazy and one of my dogs has seperation anxiety but not as bad now as in the past.I hope this method will work for you but you must be diligent about it. Good luck to you.