dgriego
Posted : 10/8/2007 8:14:36 AM
ron2
That is what I mean by balance. We all use punishment, some of us +, some of us -. It would be more balanced to see him truly using +R in as many cases as +P. Or at least have the show edited that way. It is more dramatic to see him rasslin a dog. It is probably more boring to see a motivational change. It involves doing nothing (-P) and doing something (+R).
I do not think that he purposley chooses one method ( rasslin as you say) over another (+R) for the purpose of entertainment.
Seeing a dog that is afraid of something have to face that fear is not pleasant for many folks, mainly because they humanize the dog and feel sorry for it, they think in terms of human trama and not dog trama. I do think that we compound the fears and phobias of our dogs in many cases. And I agree with Cesar when he says that the facing of the fear is exactly what is needed to cure it. But the thing that most people miss is that he also says once you begin along this course you cannot quit, you cannot back down and you must continue until the dog is calm.
You mention the compressor and the bath, both cases that were cured of the phobias (it would be interesting to see if this is still the case) and the compressor one had been compounded by the wife's anger at the husband for being in the garage, so much of the "bad juju" was picked up off the wife by the dog. I do not recall the one with the bath so I cannot speak to that one.
We went through a "fear" time with Gunnar where he became afraid of loud noises, this is not a good fear for a hunting dog to have. He had been home with my son one evening and had been outside in the yard when someone set off a large amount of fireworks in the next yard. Gunnar ran towards the house and missed the dog door completly slamming into the patio door, he recovered and almost tore the door off in his zeal to get in, at this time my son was running over the see what was going on and noticed Gunnar cowering under a desk shaking, and he sat with him and held him and loved him trying to make him feel better. From that point on any loud bang, be it gun, fireworks, backfire etc would send Gunnar running for the hills. This presents a problem when out hunting as the dog is suppose to fetch the bird not take off for parts unknown.
We took him out on a weekend to attempt to cure him. With a starter pistol and a long line I started playing ball with Gunnar which he loves, when he got into the game we fired the pistol paying no attention to it and acking as if we did not hear it, Gunnar took off to the end of his line, no one acted like they noticed his fear and we contined walking with the ball, as he got over it we went back to throwing. It took an entire weekend but at the end we could fire a shotgun and he would hold point and not flinch, he ignored the starter pistol completley. The only residue of his fear that remains is fireworks, but he does not run or panic when he hears them. Once fireworks start he will come and sit next to me, I can tell he does not like them but he does not quake in fear. Whenever I know there are going to be fireworks he stays in the house, this past fourth he slept on the couch while numerous fireworks were set off in our backyard.
My point to this story is had I felt sorry for Gunnar (which my son did and reinforced his fear instead of helping him get over it) I would have a fine useless hunting dog, one that could find birds but when the gun goes off would most likely have gotten himself killed or lost forever trying to get away. You can feel sorry for the dog and keep him afraid forever or you can act (with compassion) and let him face his fear and get over it.
an interesting side note to this story is that we used no treats in this process. The ball which he loves was the reward and the bird which he also loves was the reward.