FourIsCompany
Posted : 8/30/2007 11:50:32 AM
I do use the word. And the meaning I attribute to it is: The highest ranking member of a defined group. The one who COULD have what they want. My husband and I share the alpha role of the group of beings living in this house. In addition to being the highest ranking, we make the rules, we provide the stuff and we guarantee safety and security for the entire group.
Cara is the highest ranking of the dogs. How I know this is from studying the group. Several indication I have that she is "alpha dog" are:
1) No dog attempts to take anything away from her. (She also never takes anything away from them, but the other three exchange treats and toys all the time)
2) When she warns another dog, they back off. (The other 3 fight, spar and play among themselves)
3) The youngest 2 dogs avoid getting too close to her when they're playing rough. She doesn't like it and she has warned them many times. (She has severe hip dysplasia and is protective of her back legs because when a GSD falls on her leg, it's painful)
4) She is the calmest and most assertive of the dogs. (See "calm-assertive") [

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5) She is the only dog in my pack that has never humped another dog. (I believe humping is akin to saying, "I'm the boss of you, so do what I say." Alpha dog doesn't need to be explicit about that.)
I know some people are turned off by the word, but I believe that is only because of ADDED meaning they give to it. If we defined some of our terms (thank you, dgriego), I believe there'd be a lot less squabbling and more understanding and learning.
Notice nowhere did I use the words "dominant", "control" or "power" in this post. [

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