Ixas_girl
Posted : 4/24/2007 2:34:08 PM
Update on my program of “other dogs are no big whoop” (formerly known as "the leash aggression problem"):
The more I take Ixa to dog daycare for 1-2 hour sessions, the more relaxed she is there (even played with another dog for 2 minutes!!)!
The more relaxed Ixa#%92s becoming in the company of other dogs, the more I trust her!
The more I trust her, the less I am reactive to the approach of other dogs!
The less reactive I am, the less reactive Ixa is!
Ta da!
Loving it!
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Yesterday, I noticed that my knee jerk response is to always look at Ixa when we are approaching another dog. I was used to doing this when I was desensitizing her - I had to, so I could gauge her reactiveness, and keep her from going past her comfort zone. I realized that my looking at her, reading her, was the very thing that was making her get reactive! Because I was looking to her to decide what would happen next! In order to be responsive to her, I had to give her my attention. But in giving her my attention, I was failing to set a tone that said “eh, dog, no big whoop.” Endless cycle.
I am finding that if I don't give attention to Ixa or the other dog (or cat), there's just no energy (or at least less), and we can keep going.
I do think there's value to desensitizing, however, as is clear from the daycare visits. But now I'm thinking that I can restrict that to particualr situations that are designed for it, rather than derailing the walk with it. So, I can do the desensitisation during breaks at obedience class, or in training sessions near the dog park, and leave the walks clean.
TinaK - how are you working on your anxiety over black dogs? I've talked with the daycare trainer about volunteering there, so I can get more comfortable around other dogs, and more used to their doggy ways.