houndlove
Posted : 2/20/2007 1:25:56 PM
What's wrong with dog stairs? Some dogs have arthritis.
I don't like using 'don't humanize dogs' as code for 'don't spoil dogs' because frankly, lots of humans are spoiled to and it isn't a good thing for either dogs or humans. Growing up my best friend was pretty much in the same income bracket as my parents. Middle to upper-middle class. Our parents probably spent the same amount of money on us total per year. But she was horribly, horribly spoiled, and I don't think I was. It wasn't the amount of money spent, it was how it was doled out and why.
Anyway, you know where a lot of people have reported seeing a tremendous number of "balanced" dogs? New York City. I've seen them too. And I see them a lot where I live now which is of course a smaller city but still an urban context. It's just a matter of good socialization and training for public access being a
necessity rather than an option. There were also a lot of very easy to live with dogs where I went to college because they were welcome everywhere there too. Even the bar everyone went to (totally breaking the health code). They were taken to class, to parties, to the bar, and given the jobs a lot of students had, to work. Very well socialized dogs for whom having some amount of training was not an option because of how much they were out in public.
Our neighbors where we used to live in Maryland had some absolutely hellacious dogs. They lived outside, in a kennel, but were frequently let out to run around (ID-less and one of them an intact male) on their own with no supervision, often for days. They were perfectly happy to do this, and behaved as dogs will: peeing on everything (including human beings), humping anything that moved, bowling over every human they saw with enthusiasm, barking and howling constantly, and just generally being unendingly annoying. Talk about domestic dogs not being pack animals as well--they rarely packed. They all went their seperate ways most of the time. They'd never been inside of a house (I made the mistake of letting one in to my house once and he promptly peed on my CD rack), had never recieved any training of any kind ever. They were socialized to humans in the form of their own family and the few people they'd see around on their journeys, but that was about it. So tell me, would these dogs be considered "balanced"? They seemed pretty happy to me. But wow so irritating to be around.