Angelique
Posted : 2/8/2007 2:11:13 PM
ORIGINAL: espencer
Thats because the people here are actually interested on working with their dogs, but in general people just have dogs just for the fact of having dogs
Very true. And many people will only do what feels good to them and is self rewarding. Some are very open to a bit of advice and are willing to make some changes. Unfortunately, based on my own personal experience, these people are in the minority. Sometimes you can impart a lot of good information to a receptive person by just having a casual conversation, rather than making a "sales pitch" right off the bat. One of the days I was in the vet's last week when there was less chaos, I was able to do just that. Now, this woman has my phone number and it's up to her to call me.
ORIGINAL: espencer
Some people complain that their dogs dig holes in the backyard or chew furniture, i tell them that they need excersice (since they dont take them out because they have a big "backyard" according to them), what do they do? nothing, is easier to complain more than taking the dog out everyday, the strange thing is that if the dog shows a new bad behavior they act like if i never said anything before, is a vicious circle
Welcome to the club! You are learning where you can help, where you run into walls, and the most difficult part of helping a confused or troubled dog...getting through to the owners.
Many folks will not put their dogs needs first or change their own behavior until things are very bad and the dog is completely out of control.
Helpful bits of information are fine, but you quickly learn where to put your efforts and where not to waste them.