inne
Posted : 11/24/2006 3:30:47 PM
ORIGINAL: espencer
If we were having our dogs 24/7 inside a cage from the day they are born just like any other wild animal i dont think we would be needing to do anything because they dont know any better, now since household dogs have "tasted" the freedom of walking around the house, the comfort of a human bed, the flavor of human food, etc then we "affect" their minds showing that if there is no discipline, boundries and limitations they could live an even "better" life (sleeping in human beds, eating better food and do whatever they want)
A good example are the tigers, once they taste the flavor of human flesh then they only look for humans to eat, any other flesh is not as better as the human one, same with dogs, when you give them a pice of leftovers like a piece of steak that you could not finish then the dog will be begging everytime you eat because the dog food is nothing next to a steak
So if any wild animal could live with us we would be having the same problems that we have with dogs but some of them would not think twice before "discipline" us instead
I don't think anyone is suggesting that we don't set boundaries. But I think our definitions of boundaries, prioritization of and ideas about how to set and enforce them are different.
There are some logical leaps you make in the quoted section that I question. Houndlove made really great points and here's my example: I can give my dog a piece of what I'm eating and yet she won't beg because she's been taught that begging isn't acceptable and, more importantly, it's ineffective. I don't have a kitchen table because my apartment doesn't have room for one. I have a coffee table and she could easily jump up there and eat anything she wants. It's the perfect height for food stealing. But instead she lies under the couch and rests while I'm eating because of positive reinforcement training. I could have trained her by pulling a leash or by pushing her off or by doing an alpha roll and, aside from the alpha roll (she's a soft dog and I'm sure she would have had serious issues with being alpha rolled), I'm pretty sure the end behaviour would have been the same as +R. But I think those methods are unnecessary when I had positive alternatives. We can have a happy, harmonious relationship full of boundaries and discipline and ALSO share a bed, share food, take turns walking through doorways, etc. because - aside from having a non-status seeking dog - I laid the groundwork with training that was comfortable for both of us and also nurtured the relationship as whole. If I got a Great Dane, I'd be SO grateful that I now know how to deal with training a dog without relying on physical methods, because many Great Danes outweigh me, out-muscle me AND they have much sharper teeth than I do - in me vs. Great Dane, the Great Dane would totally win unless I had effective alternatives to physical restraint or punishment.
I can also get a horse into a frame much better by rewarding and gently encouraging the behaviour rather than cranking him in and - this is huge, I think - I'll have a happier, more generous horse who wants to work with me, more authentic and effective contact with the horse and people who know horses will be able to tell a forced, cranked frame from a mile away.
My real point is that +R isn't just about teaching tricks like fetching a ball or doing a flip. You can use it to teach basic life skills and to set the boundaries needed for living together. It helps establish your relationship as a whole rather than just a specific novelty behaviour.
ORIGINAL: houndlove
I just feel that CM takes these basic and pervasive problems (over-permissiveness and lack of exercise and stimulation) and goes way over-board with the solutions. It's like putting a thumbtack into a corkboard with a sledgehammer.
I completely agree with this statement.