willowchow
Posted : 5/7/2007 7:38:59 PM
Tamara--I read all of your post but not every word of all the responses, so sorry if this has already been said.
But, one thing that really stuck out to me in your post was that she is taking the dog by the collar to move him. That's a bad idea. It will leave her open to a bite. If possible maybe she could have him drag a leash. They even make special ones just for that with no handle on the end.
I did NILIF and I think it would help her a lot too. And, I had best results with not forcing her into a room but sort of changing the tone and subject and getting her to follow willingly. For example, we want her out of a room and she doesn't want to hear it, instead of making her I would say something like, "wanna go for a walk", BOOM, dog is at the door. Or, "wanna get a bone", out to the kitchen she'd go. And, then once away from the excitment it was much easier to get her to go wherever else I wanted her to end up.
And, I know with my dog she can also be very unpredictable with guests. And, like Caleb she will sometimes growl if someone suddenly gets up even if they've been in the house for awhile. So, I just keep her away from guests. They are really there for me and not her anyway.
I hope it works out for her and Caleb. It's hard though.