running out of aggr. excuses

    • Gold Top Dog
    ORIGINAL: jennie_c_d

    I don't have anything constructive to add, except that WOW, that's a gorgeous dog!!! Russell is just beautiful!

    I'm glad to hear that he's doing better. I hope that he continues to improve.



    thank you! he's so photogenic :)
    • Gold Top Dog
    congrats on the headway, and i just wanted to say that pic of him pointing is JUST GORGEOUS!!! wow!!!
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    thank you. of course that was right after he got his butt and legs clipped for neutering (i almost strangled my vet! he had just grew his feathers  out!). Now he has a little more hair. i love that pic. he's just doin what he loves.
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    ORIGINAL: Ixas_girl

    ORIGINAL: luvmyswissy
    I told my brother in law, turn your back, don't speak or touch him. River ran to him to jump and my BIL did what I wanted. River immediatly ran to the front of my BIL again and jumped up as my BIL turned, didn't speak or touch.. River then just walked away from him. A few minutes later my BIL and I were talking and River walked up and sat down in front of him. I then told him, NOW you can pet him. I was so proud of both my BIL and River - my BIL was impressed too.


    Beautiful! I wish I could manage my BF's behavior as well as you managed your BIL's! [8D]

     
    I am jealous!!  Why is it when *I* say "don't look, don't touch, don't speak" the in laws interpret that as "put your hands on her to physically hold her down, but gently and ineffectually, while babbling nonsense like Nononodon'tdothattheresagoodgirldontjumpuparghnostopthatoopsstopitnowtheresagooddog, Gosh she's very exciteable isn't she? Ooops!  Ahh how cute, its OK I don't mind really"
     
    AARRRRRRRRGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!
     
    Maybe I should open a new thread and ask for advice on training idiot humans!!!!!!
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    ORIGINAL: Chuffy

    ORIGINAL: Ixas_girl

    ORIGINAL: luvmyswissy
    I told my brother in law, turn your back, don't speak or touch him. River ran to him to jump and my BIL did what I wanted. River immediatly ran to the front of my BIL again and jumped up as my BIL turned, didn't speak or touch.. River then just walked away from him. A few minutes later my BIL and I were talking and River walked up and sat down in front of him. I then told him, NOW you can pet him. I was so proud of both my BIL and River - my BIL was impressed too.


    Beautiful! I wish I could manage my BF's behavior as well as you managed your BIL's! [8D]


    I am jealous!!  Why is it when *I* say "don't look, don't touch, don't speak" the in laws interpret that as "put your hands on her to physically hold her down, but gently and ineffectually, while babbling nonsense like Nononodon'tdothattheresagoodgirldontjumpuparghnostopthatoopsstopitnowtheresagooddog, Gosh she's very exciteable isn't she? Ooops!  Ahh how cute, its OK I don't mind really"

    AARRRRRRRRGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!

    Maybe I should open a new thread and ask for advice on training idiot humans!!!!!!

     
    Indeed! There is a thread where we did discuss this:
     
    [linkhttp://forum.dog.com/asp/tm.asp?m=266121]http://forum.dog.com/asp/tm.asp?m=266121[/link]
    • Gold Top Dog
    I remember that thread.... unfortunately it didn't really help me!  I already understood the value of "no touch....etc", it was getting the message across to the rest of the family that I was struggling with. 
    • Gold Top Dog
    ORIGINAL: Chuffy

    I remember that thread.... unfortunately it didn't really help me!  I already understood the value of "no touch....etc", it was getting the message across to the rest of the family that I was struggling with. 

     
    Yes. The human factor. [:(]
     
    This is where all of us "dog nerds" join hands and scream together. [:D]
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    ORIGINAL: Chuffy

    ORIGINAL: Ixas_girl

    ORIGINAL: luvmyswissy
    I told my brother in law, turn your back, don't speak or touch him. River ran to him to jump and my BIL did what I wanted. River immediatly ran to the front of my BIL again and jumped up as my BIL turned, didn't speak or touch.. River then just walked away from him. A few minutes later my BIL and I were talking and River walked up and sat down in front of him. I then told him, NOW you can pet him. I was so proud of both my BIL and River - my BIL was impressed too.


    Beautiful! I wish I could manage my BF's behavior as well as you managed your BIL's! [8D]


    I am jealous!!  Why is it when *I* say "don't look, don't touch, don't speak" the in laws interpret that as "put your hands on her to physically hold her down, but gently and ineffectually, while babbling nonsense like Nononodon'tdothattheresagoodgirldontjumpuparghnostopthatoopsstopitnowtheresagooddog, Gosh she's very exciteable isn't she? Ooops!  Ahh how cute, its OK I don't mind really"

    AARRRRRRRRGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!

    Maybe I should open a new thread and ask for advice on training idiot humans!!!!!!

     
    My BIL is the first person to do what I asked and the first time it proved to me that it would work.  It works for me and my DH, we ignore and he goes away but ...  EVERYONE ELSE is exactly how you discribe, they have to touch or say "down" or something.  They just can't ignore and turn away.
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    If a pup has been pulled from the litter early, socializing him with other puppies and some safe adult dogs, who can tell him off nicely, is really critical to his development.