Ixas_girl
Posted : 8/11/2007 10:31:58 AM
ORIGINAL: spiritdogs
Why are some people thinking of dogs as furniture, and others interested in their constant presence in our lives? Why are some of us so fascinated with them as companions and interested in what makes them tick?
Why are YOU a dog person?
ORIGINAL: Billy_Bob
For those who are not animal people. I think these people tend to be selfish, only think of themselves, are considered mean and nasty, and could care less about anyone else or an animal. Some people are not very good at taking care of themselves, let alone an animal or another person.
I agree that the way we care for others, whether it's animals or people, says a lot about who we are and what's important to us.
Some people who "love dogs" are called hoarders. Keeping animals serves their pathology. Like the example of furniture, these animals are collected as things, albeit demanding and complex ones [

]. (There were 12 aggressive dogs that cannot be rehomed at the shelter last time I visited. They were all taken from the home of a hoarder. [

] They will all be PTS. That's an unfortunate version of the damage done by a pathological dog person.)
Caring for an animal can make us feel connected, not alone, give a sense of importance or belonging. I have single female friends who can not maintain romantic relationships, but their steady pet (usually a cat, actually [

]) is always available for lovin'.
Where I grew up, getting a cat or dog was sort of rite of passage into late childhood, when it was appropriate to start taking on responsibilities and learn compassion for another being.
I was always a cat person. Then a lizzard person. Then Ixa came into my life, and now I am a dog person. When I move out of the city I may become a goat person, too. I like to think that Ixa found me, and is a special teacher to me on this part of my journey through life.