Lynn
Posted : 9/2/2006 1:40:13 PM
Patricia McConnell has a book called The Cautious Canine. It's only $ 6 on amazon. It's on my "to get next" list, so I haven't read it yet. For that price, you couldn't lose, and might get some very good tips out of it. BTW, I love your dog. It's so wonderful that you've taken him in and given him a loving home. My 50 lb boy isn't as scared as yours, but he has always been fearful - from the very beginning. He will not take treats or play with toys, either, when he is scared. It's kinda funny in a way that these big, muscular dogs can be such scaredy-cats! But, it's not funny that your baby is hurting himself and destroying home while being scared.
Does playing calming music, classical, or piana, or something help while during a storm? They have learned that medical patients undergoing diagnostic procedures need less pain medication if they are listening to music. So, maybe the right type of music would help to "drown" out some of the storm sounds, and therefore, help to reduce the anxiety? Or maybe a tape of your voice, speaking calmly too him, or singing happily?
As far as the meds go, maybe you can reduce the dosage? Those breathing and out-of-it behaviours would really scare me, too! I know with sleeping pills for humans, 1/2 dosage works about as well as a full pill without as bad a side effect. You might also try another brand of medication, if you still have to use it while re-training. I wouldn't try a new medication without being at home to see how he reacts, at first. I sure hope you can get him off the meds.
I don't advocate getting another dog at this time. But, maybe being around another dog that he is really good friends with would help. So, he's not "alone". Maybe developing a good doggy friendship with someone? Could he go to work with you on those days? Probably not. So, could he go stay with some one else? Maybe there is someone you trust who is retired and could dog-sit on those scarey days? My big scaredy dog "needs" his sister by him -or he gets seperation anxiety. Where one goes, there the other MUST be. So, in the end, it might be helpful to get another dog - if your dog is not dog-aggressive. I would want behaviour consultation in his case, before deciding to bring in another animal. So, it may be doing a little of several things that might help the most. Good luck!