spiritdogs
Posted : 6/29/2006 6:30:19 AM
and ill tell you what, i have never had a dog fear me or become aggressive because of the way i correct them so obviously i'm doing something right whether you understand the way i put things or not, dont read so far into things.
I am sure you won't like to hear this, but my experience tells me that many owners, possibly yourself included, do *not* read subtle signs of canine stress or anxiety very well, and you may be mistaken about any damage you may have caused. But, it has also been my experience that being defensive about this subject, in particular, blocks your ability to learn new ways of doing things that may result in happier, and better behaved, dogs. I like to cite the example of Gail Fisher, a very well known trainer in New England. She was a traditional trainer, and well respected for her abilities. Yet, when she saw what clicker training could do, she not only abandoned her former methods, she risked her business to do it. Now, that's courage and fearlessness!
I also often think about one of my students. He has a very timid Welsh Springer Spaniel who is not very interested in physical play. One day, I met them at a local dog day care - he was dropping her off, and telling me how much she looooooves coming there. As he left, I watched through the viewing window as she was plunked (did not go willingly) into a play yard full of exuberant Labs, a Boxer or two, and other dogs. She cowered, urinated, and looked as if she would prefer to be anyplace else on Earth. The sad part is that it wasn't just an initial submissive greeting. She hunkered down in that yard for a full ten minutes and did not join the group, or even attempt to slink away. Shaking and terrified, her owner abandoned her to a situation she was not yet prepared to handle, and though she was not injured physically, I'm sure that she would have loved to find a way to tell him how overwhelmed she was. This has now been going on for months, and no one at the day care, supposedly dog professionals, even reads this dog's behavior properly. The owner thinks that her groveling is happiness, but ignores the tucked tail, the sweaty pads, and the stress wrinkles.
And, unless you are referring to jack...cheese, I'm with Lori. Vulgarity is how we defend ourselves when our arguments don't hold up.