glenmar
Posted : 5/16/2006 6:37:59 AM
Let me set a scene for you. You are in the bathroom midstream and someone yells at you to stop. Can you? Can you stop and KEEP the flow stopped? Try it sometime...its pretty tough. For some reason the only time the phone EVER seems to ring is when I'm in the bathroom.....and I can either try to stop or hurry up and finish and it's USUALLY more effective to hurry up and finish.
I foster and I never seem to have ONE pup at a time to housetrain. So, I become the jack in the box. There always seems to be a rythem in my house. After the meal, after the outdoor play and potty, everyone wants to lay exactly where I am. So if ONE gets up and leaves, I've got a pretty clear idea that s/he has to potty. At that point I'm going stand up and ask "wann go OUTSIDE and go POTTY?" Once out I tell them "go potty" and then I praise like crazy for the "goooooood potty". Now if I'm a nanosecond to late I'll say "Unh uh....not there....OUTSIDE to go potty" and scoop that pup up and rush him/her outside. And I always have towels at hand so that I don't get covered in pee.
NO isn't a word that I use. I will use it WITH another word, but about the only time is "no bite" and simply because I haven't been creative enough to come up with another term. NO doesn't tell the pup what I WANT him to do, so by saying NO, I've given him only a partial instruction and in the absence of complete instruction, what's a pupper to do? On the one hand he's got me saying NO, which tells him nothing, and on the other hand he's got a very FULL bladder begging for release.
Truely the most effect way to CHANGE a behavior is to PREVENT that behavior in the first place.