calliecritturs
Posted : 6/1/2013 3:09:15 PM
dyan
I think a little common courtesy to NOT run up behind a person...whether they have a dog or not would be the thing to do. If they come towards me and I see them, I get out of their way, it seems to me they could grant us a little courtesy coming from behind
Dyan -- the pivotal word in your post is actually "courtesy" -- and I may be something of a dinosaur but that is really a touchy subject for me because there is NO such thing as "common courtesy" any more really -- why call it "common" when it's so danged UN-common.
The byword now is "attitude is everything" and so if I can walk out in front of your car, or stride/run past you without a thought or a glance and convince you to give way then I win!
That said? It's meaningless. You can't count on "courtesy" -- and when you have a dog with you (and I care not if it is one or multiples) then YOU had better be capable of handling that/those dog(s) all the way because that's the ONLY way you can protect your own ... and flatly, that is our job.
Sure -- you have 3 dogs on leashes it is hard -- whether they are all sweetness and light or reactive. BUT -- it is the responsibility of the owner to **make sure** what they are doing is safe because in the laws of most any state/local area a dog essentially equates to a "weapon" and the dog/owner will get the blame every single time.
So ... as an owner, when we take *on* more than one dog -- or a larger dog, or a reactive dog or whatever -- we have to make darned sure that WE -- the human -- are equal to the task and have 100% control. If you can't totally, and completely reliably walk *three* dogs at once on leash, then to be honest you'd better go on 3 walks then, 1 per dog. If you know you can't possibly walk all three of those dogs and see to their physical needs then shame on that person for taking on what they can't possibly handle.
I told David 9 years ago when we were looking for a therapy dog then -- my criteria had to be that the dog had to be small enough for me to be able to carry that dog DOWN 3 steps to get that dog out of pee if it were too sick to walk. with my physical limitations -- 30 pounds is a max. Even now that we've built a ramp and have various wagons I need to be able to pick the dog up and put it IN the wagon to get it out. **MY** responsibility.
If you have a reactive dog, it's your responsibility to contain that dog -- and not only to contain it but to be aware of it's surroundings -- so that a child doesn't come zooming up behind you to get bitten or the rude jogger. Like Sandie prepares with bits of hot dog and she has a PLAN for when her "flock of fluffs" are in an iffy situation -- we all need to take stock of our situations and make sure you and the dog will survive the situation without something awful happening.
Yes, unless you are totally aware of your circumstances, someone *can* come up behind you and scare you ... that may come under "rude" but it also comes under "I need to be focused when I'm out alone with the dog so no one can take advantage of us, or scare me to the point that Gibby charges them!" -- someone may be rude, but it is first of all incumbent on me to be 100% aware of my own surroundings to make sure *I* am safe.
Now -- does that make the jogger less rude? No. But the majority of the world tends to be pretty rude. Because everyone is out for themselves.
At the same time though - it is NOT something the average non-dog person knows .... that dogs are predatory animals and running away isn't smart. To us it's a no-brainer but if people actually understood how to lessen their chances of being bitten, there would be less bites. But at the same time if people knew THAT they'd probably know it's stupid to let your dogs run wild off leash (and not caring IF the dogs get impounded or hurt someone), like it is dumb to feed live gators in someone's back yard, it's stupid to feed the bears or tease them, it's stupid to go to a bar and get drunk and go "home" with someone you just met. A lot of things people do unthinkingly are DUMB -- but people are just like that and unfortunately you can't legislate intelligence.
Yeah -- that's all "common sense" - and at the risk of repeating myself why do they call it "common" when it's so UN-common?