glenmar
Posted : 9/21/2011 7:11:50 AM
Well, yeah. The dog was in the shelter, learned behavior that kepther out of trouble, and who knows what sort of home she came from. Adjusting to YOUR home is going to take time.
As an example, I placed a foster pup, perfectly normal, happy, stinker of a pup. I did a bad job. When he came back two months later he was withdrawn, overly eager to please, and would not touch a toy. We had to teach him how to play with toys again and had a party, literally, when he swiped a plastic bottle from the recycling!
IF, as they say, dogs live in the here and now, they do so with shadows of the past and their own little fears. She just needs time to feel safe, and to feel like this is truly her forever home. Make a real effort to interact with her and TEACH her to play, that it's ok to play with her stuff. Sometimes it takes awhile to figure out just what toy is going to hit their hot button. Maybe take her shopping with you and see what lights a fire in her.