I seem to have trained/enabled myself into a corner.
I have two dogs, one is a female lab mix going on 14 and the other a male lab/shepard who is 8/12. Both are in good health, but the female is clearly starting to slow down. She very much considers herself alpha over her brother but the two get along fine.
Two things - presumably related - have started occuring in the past 3-6 months.
1) she appears to get disoriented from time to time. Even if we're ten feet away from her, if she doesn't sense the pack nearby, she will bark and bark and bark. Once she is assured we are near (by talking to her or petting her) she calms down again. A week ago our vet put her some medicine for dimentia (I don't have the box in front of me) and this is helping some (I think the end of the hot weather has also helped.)
2) the more pressing issue is that, after 13 years of being letter-perfect in the house, she is starting to have accidents - multiple times a day. Call it a curse or a blessing, but even when she has the run of the house, she *only* messes her dogie bed. She no longer tells us when she needs to go out. If she needs to go, she'll simply go to her bag and eliminate. We don't crate per se, but out kitchen is *very* small and we keep both dogs together when we are asleep or need to be out of the house (we both work.) The available floor space is little more than the space for two dog-bags for two large dogs.
And of course, by eliminating in her doggy bed, that means she sleeps in her mess. In addition to the health concerns, she stinks.
I purchased "piddle pads" to place beside her bag, but she has accustomed herself so much to this new normal that she ignores the pads and still uses the bags. Any suggestions? Remove the bags until she gets in the habit of using the pads? Something else?
It's so distressing for a dog who was *so* good for so long to change virtually overnight.
Worse thing of all, is that the younger dog becomes stressed - and even destructive - when messes occur in such tight qyarters.