rwbeagles
Posted : 7/9/2011 1:36:46 PM
I wouldn't say she'd been abused...to me she sounds like what a typical Terrier allowed to run rampant without structure, rules or expectations...would eventually act like. Terriers are tough little dogs...they don't really cave under pressure as much as try to take as many others with them when they go LOL.
One of the MANY things people do wrong with "small cute fluffy" type dogs is refuse to see them as dogs, with teeth and a will of their own. They are not furry kids, or babies...they are dogs...dogs bred to go down into a dark hole on their own and kill whatever they found there. They are TOUGH.
This dog sounds like one that has been indulged and probably had a fearful owner that was so scared the first time the feisty wee puppeh growled...they backed off. Thus eventually teaching the dog that "hey! this is a GREAT way to control my environment! scaring people into doing what makes me comfortable!". Many small dogs rule their houses their entire lives this way...people don't sit in places because they belong to the dog, etc. It's not acceptable in my home...but somehow some folks DO live that way.
If you'd like to NOT live that way I would suggest looking here or googling...NILIF training, Nothing In Life Is Free. The dog should do SOMETHING for anything it gets, food attentions, walks, etc. You guys are new to one another so right now try to avoid OVERDO'ING the coddling, instead try a no nonsense approach. Keep a leash on her when you are home to bring home the point that your commands are to be followed. Buy some super yummy treats and keep those on your person...offer them for PROPER behaviors.
If she's wigging out whenever you pass the crate? I'd sit there, all day if necessary and pass her tidbits thru the door ONLY when she was quiet or calm etc.
We have lots of trainers here and experienced owners that can help. But it's sometimes problematic when you start from a place of "pity" for a dog because you assume abuse occured. You cannot know that, so just assume the dog wants to be happy, and in a loving home...and do what you can to make that happen. Without excusing bad behaviors...