Have I ruined her?

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    Have I ruined her?

     Tootsie is the reason. I ask is because today at my parents I had to parallel park so my dad got Toots out of the car first. She was on leash and refused to go in the yard until I rolled down the window and told her to go inside. I realize she probably thought I was leaving her. Another scenario is when we are walking off-leash on trails. She will not go off on her own to explore, she doesn't leave my side. No big deal. If we're at someone elses house she follows me constantly and is basically at my side the entire time. Again, no biggie. If theres food involved all bets are off though. Stick out tongue

     

    I just want her to enjoy being a dog. She has no SA to speak of, shes fine when left alone. I drop her off everyday at my parents and shes fine there, but as soon as I enter the picture, dynamics change. She becomes barky and my shadow. At home, nothing. Never barks and will go lay down or sniff around.

     

    Is this a form of SA? Have I made her a clingy mamas girl?

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    Kenya's the same way.  A one-person velcro dog.  No SA (she is fine home alone all day, crated or free reign) but when out and about only needs a leash b/c of the leash law, won't leave the owner's side.  She won't even go off on her own at home, not really interested in food or treats from anyone else either.

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     Thanks Lies. I actually was thinking of Kenya while posting this.

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    Neiko is like that too. The world revolves around me in his eyes. I wanted a dog like this after having dakota - the most anti loyal dog ever who was always running off. Its actually really nice because I know he will never go anywhere regardless of the temptation. He won't even chase a deer that jumps out in front of us. The only time his velcroness has been a problem has been in sar training.
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    Sandy is a Mama's Girl. No doubt about it. No SA either, she's free reign in the house. But if I leave her with some one on leash while I run in to a store, she'll whine and pull towards the store.
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    I miss my mama's boy something fierce -- Billy was always that way. Neither Tink nor Luna are.  Sad

    I don't think you've 'ruined' her - I think it's her choice to love you like that.  If you asked Tiffy she'd probably tell you that she *enjoys* being by your side more than most dogs enjoy independance.  You simply light up her life.  It's a good thing.

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     I don't think you've ruined her. Luke is this way a bit too. If I'm around, he generally sticks by me. If I'm walking, and I try to have someone else take him, he won't really go far from me. He'll even sometimes whine or cry if he gets too far from me. If I'm around, he's perfectly cool and checks things out, hangs with other people, everything. If I go out, he hangs around the house with other people, if I have a friend come in to take him out, he's fine and goes out with her. He's fine when he goes to the kennel, and he does fine when he stays with someone else's house. This actually did work out pretty nicely though when I worked with a kid who I was trying to have stop at the corner before she crossed the street. I just gave her Luke, and walked behind her. I taught him to sit at the corners, and he wouldn't cross the road until I got closer and told him he could go.

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     ((((((((((Callie))))))))))))

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    The only way to know for sure is to send her to me for about a year. If she misses you, I promise I'll let you know. ;)

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    tiffy

     Thanks Lies. I actually was thinking of Kenya while posting this.

     

    I am so used to it now, it's a combination of breed trains.  Velcro, loyal, one-person dogs, aloofness (this is mainly being apathetic towards everyone else, not being overly suspicious or fearful).  I've never really had to leash train or off-leash proof any of my GSDs.  They are only on leashes for training, showing, or leash law purposes.  I personally prefer aloofness and do not want a dog that wants to run up and interact with everyone or a dog that can be coaxed away from me for food or a toy.  Some times the clingy-ness at home gets old but that's what crates, gates, and doors are for.

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     Finn is like this too.  He NEEDS to be with me.  He has no separation anxiety, but he does not leave my side.  In fact all of my dogs are with me all day when I am home.  Chief is a little different since he will occasionally break away and lay somewhere else in the house, but mostly everyone likes to be with me.  Finn is the most attached though.

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     Lies, the only reason Toots is on leash is because of the leash law too. I've never had to train a recall either. I also never have to worry about her approaching a stranger or dog. Maybe Tootsie is a GSD wannabe. Big Smile

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    gotta go with the flow here.  Nope, not ruined.

    My entire crew is this way.  They KNOW that the boundary is about 50 feet, and I'll be darned if I can get them to go one step further off lead.  There are times that I just don't wanna walk as far as they do, but, nope, they won't go romping off on their own even if I tell them to "go ahead and run".  The only time they'll break that boundary is chasing a ball, but then, I or DH has thrown it, so it must be ok, right?

    And in the house?  The real estate closest to the mom is the BEST.  For all of them.