JackieG
Posted : 3/23/2011 6:48:11 AM
dane6
but if i were to go to him and pet him he will make that grumble noise and mouth my arm....like he is telling me to stop it...
It does sound like he's objecting and correcting you. Not something I would be comfortable ignoring. You might want to consider starting NILIF with him. It stands for 'nothing in life is free'. You can Google the term and find lots of info about it and how to implement the concept.
I'm getting the impression that he's on the couch or another piece of furniture when this happens. If that's the case, I would start training him to get off in return for a treat. Make your approach a signal to him that he's going to get a treat but he has to get off the furniture first. I would train him that he's only allowed on the furniture when invited. This can take a while and everyone in the family has to do the same thing. The kids especially, need to be instructed not to grab him by his collar to move him, as this can make things worse and his objections could escalate. Entice him off and give him much praise when he gets down. If he won't be enticed down with a treat or other reward, put a leash on him and use that to gently pull him off.