calliecritturs
Posted : 8/18/2010 12:59:16 PM
I don't think length of time matters either -- however I am *always* really careful about just plopping a dog in the midst of others because it can go very, very wrong.
We took a huge risk when we got Tink -- none of us had ever laid eyes on her!! I knew she was used to other pugs ... but that's ALL.
I did a scent box with the foster family taking care of her -- I sent her washcloths that each of my guys had slept on (put each of them in it's own ziplock bag) and I also sent Davd's and my pillowcases (after 1 night -- also in ziplock). The foster mom sent me a towel of Tinks.
When she first met us (David and I) in a Comfort Inn reception area in Austin she LEAPT into my arms from six feet away!! Rita literally couldn't PRY her out of my arms. I was part of her "pack" because she'd gone to sleep with my scent.
Same thing when we got her home. All 3 of mine greeted her like a long lost family member and she was instantly in love with all 3 - Billy, Luna and Tink.
I would do the scent box thing in a heartbeat again. I think it bridged that gap incredibly well.
I only offer that because I think so often we get wound up in "where do they meet" and we don't do the EASY stuff that can really make it all "family" easily and very seamlessly.