calliecritturs
Posted : 3/10/2010 9:13:34 PM
I am surprised no one has mentioned this but I'm gonna --
The second scenario the older dog was up on the bed with you -- frankly, that's a prized position for ANY dog. The younger dog comes slamming in and jumps up on the bed -- YEP -- he's lucky he didn't get his face ripped off!!
With YOU on the bed, the bed being a "prized place" (it's "up" it's YOURS and YOU were **THERE** -- so let's say prized times three!!) you want to be REALLY careful and not set this puppy up to fail.
YOu really don't want to put these dogs in a position where either of them is guarding "YOU". You literally become a resource in this case -- you and the older dog were enjoying a moment. NEXT TIME have the other person ANNOUNCE to you "we're on our way to the bedroom" IN TIME for you to get the other dog down OFF the bed or else for the other person to have control of the pup so the pup can **ASK** to come up onto the bed for a cuddle.
YOU are the human and you can say yes or no to this. BUT don't put the older dog in the position of "power" and then wonder why it snaps at the pup. And you can set this up to increase next time so the older pup then feels compelled to defend ITS place on the bed ....
My point is this -- so far this is just corrective behavior -- I totally agree. HOWEVER -- you can actually set the stage for worse in the future by not controlling what you can.
Now -- for a pup to jump into another dog's bed ... that's just kinda rude and crude but as long as you're still I'll tolerate it.
BUT when it comes to a position that is both close to you and a position of power -- you're coming close to setting these two up for conflict.
Do I make sense?? I'm not giving you a hard time -- just warning you that you want to be extremely careful not to set situations up to MAKE problems.