Chuffy
Posted : 1/25/2010 7:07:36 AM
He doesn't "know he has been bad". The "sheepish" behaviour you are seeing is because he can sense or anticipate your anger/upset. He doesn't know this is because he has messed up your bed or chewed holes in the blankets. He is giving off the same signals he would to an aggressive dog, to try to deflect that aggression.
Shut your bedroom door and give him his own bed to rest in, so that he can't continue this behaviour.
Plus, you need to think about WHY he is doing this - is it anxiety, stress, boredom....? Is he bothered by the fact that he is apart from you, or is it being alone which bothers him? How old is he - could he be teething? How long have you had him and howl ong has the behaviour been going on for... when did it start, what seemed to trigger it.... was it a house move for example, or a change in diet.....
The root cause of his behaviour also needs to be addressed... otherwise, when you close the bedroom door, the problem will manifest in some other way.... destroying some other item, or house soiling. So figuring out WHY he is doing it, so yo can address that, is really important.
What have you already tried to stop the behaviour? For example, does he get a really good walk/run before you leave the house? A tired dog is a good dog. Does he had interactive toys to play with, safe and appropriate things to chew on? Have you tried leaving him with an old shirt with your scent on? Leaving the TV or radio switched on for him?
He might actually cope better if he is confined to a smaller area, with only his bed, water and toys and chews.... It will also mean that he and your belongings are safe and you won't have to come home to a scene of destruction. Ignore him for 15 minutes before you leave the house and ignore him again when you return home (other than letting him out to toilet for example) until he has fully calmed down. If you make a big deal of saying goodbye before you leave, you leave him in a highly emotional state.... and also, if he is anticipating your return (with excitement or dread) that is also going to make the problem worse.
HTH.