I almost broke down in to tears last night! Things did not go well and I felt guilty and frustrated all at the same time.
First abbie barked and lunged all the way to our box. Then while I was trying to do mat work, she could hear the dog on the other side of the barrier so she started reacting to that. They had to put up TWO gates on each side so that she would settle down and stop worrying.
She would not calm down enough for us to do any of the exercises though. I tried a new technique for "look at that" since the other way wasn't working. Basically I took a stuffed animal, put it behind my back then pulled it out quickly and when abbie looked at it I clicked treated and put the stuffie back behind my back. Well this stressed abbie out so much that she turned away from me, sat down, ears flat and her head pointed up to the wall/ ceiling. It was the most extreme avoidance body language that I had ever seen out of her! That I had caused that stress really made me wonder if I'm the one that is causing her worried reactive behavior in the first place.
The instructor came over to work with us and she did a few look at that's, but abbie would catch on which hand was holding the stuffie and would avoid looking that way. So we had to switch hands every 2 times to fake her out.
Then we tried to work on crate games. Forget it. She was not going in there for nothing. She doesn't love crates anyway so I expected it and didn't push.
At that point I just laid down on the floor next to her (she was on her mat) and gave her a massage. This is what her and I do every night before bed. She instantly relaxed so I did that for the rest of the class while everyone else worked. Eventually abbie fell asleep (I was happy that she relaxed so much).
Obviously this is going to be a very long process. She worries so much about her surroundings that her brain just doesn't function and she boils over. I talked to our vet and we are starting her on a very low dose of prozac. The hope is that the prozac will lower her stress so that she can actually think enough to work on some of these cu techniques.
The whole thing is so upsetting but I'm determined to make it work. I don't want her going through life being so stressed.