Jan
Posted : 8/30/2006 12:17:07 AM
I know what you mean -- I fear this with our "regulars" at Jessie's nursing home. She has become very attached to several of the people, and so have I -- we're even making them Christmas presents (I found a bunch of different dog-patterned fleece material, and we're making the no-sew blankets to help them stay warm in the winter -- well, actually, I'm making them, Jessie is just stomping on them to give them character!). But I do think about this from time to time.
But the upside is seeing the difference your dog makes, which is incredible. Last week, we were outside playing ball with Jessie's regulars, and a couple and their daughter brought their father out, who was completely non responsive to them (and everything else), and had been for several months. They, however, were fascinated by Jessie's ball playing with the other residents, and they kept trying to get their father to look at the dog, since apparently he'd always had big shepherd-y dogs his whole life.
So Jessie is kind of noticing this, and finally she puts the dog in the guy's lap. He sorta grasps it in his hand, but doesn't do anything and eventually lets go of it, so Jessie goes and nudges it up to his hand again, barks at him once in her most stern "Throw it for me!" voice, and...he threw the ball for her!! After that, she returned it to his lap a bunch of times, and he threw it more than half a dozen times and even smiled at her! The family told me this was the first time they've seen him react to or respond to anything in three months.
And THAT is why I do it.
Well, that, and I feel Jessie has a responsiblity to give back, since she's worked her way up from kill shelter to a very nice life! : )
What I'm working toward now is becoming a TDI examiner so I can give the test out here and get more therapy dogs working the local hospitals, nursing homes and libraries. Another two months before I can apply, but I'm really hoping they approve me, I really love doing this, and enjoy expanding what therapy dogs can do. In fact, now I'm putting on a 30 minute "show" at the nursing home's "Autumn Fair" on September 23rd. I have no idea what I'm doing with this show, since I just found out about it, and honestly, I'm scared out of my wits about how I'm going to fill 30 minutes (major stage fright!), but they expect several hundred people from the community, and I thought it was a great opportunity to spread the word about therapy dogs. I've got Jessie working on her tricks now, hopefully I can get six other dogs and do some different exercises and stuff. We shall see.
But yeah, as great as it is, it can also be tough emotionally. Hopefully, the pay off outweighs the pain of the losses.
Jan