brookcove
Posted : 8/22/2008 10:54:09 PM
Hey, what's wrong with letting the dogs lick the plates clean for us before returning them to the cupboards?
That reminds me of a friend who had someone over for dinner who was NOT a dog person (she very much is). This person, after dinner, was obviously incredibly freaked out when my friend placed the plates on the floor for the dogs to "prewash." When my friend noticed, she didn't say anything, and pretended not to notice, while she fixed coffee for them both. When her dogs were done, she wordlessly walked over, picked up the plates and set them in the cupboard. The guest set down the coffee and found an excuse to leave pretty soon afterwards.
No, she never told her guest it was a joke, and of course that person never came back - not that my friend cared, she was pretty offended!
We have a "look but don't touch" rule. Dogs here are not allowed to touch food, even set on the floor, unless they are called to it by name. I have two chubby dogs who don't need fat, Ben who can't have - well, most things, Maggie who can't have grains, Gus whose insides explode if he gets too much meat in one day, and Lynn who is somewhat food possessive and learning to behave herself.
By training this ahead of time, starting at mealtime, simply by using the dog's name when I set the bowl down, the dogs seem to learn that no name equals "not invited." They also have an "OFF" command if they start to crowd us (we eat at their eye level).
Dogs go through phases here - first they have a natural respect (well, most of them) for our space. Then that wears out and they try to stick their noses in our plates. Then when they start to understand the context under which they ARE allowed to eat, plus get the OFF correction a few times, they lie down and wait for leftover/pan cleanup time. Maggie finds the kids eternally fascinating and it's her job to dispose of crumbs that are flung wide of the table for various reasons (boys ). Still, she has to wait even then for the command "Clean up!"