calliecritturs
Posted : 4/25/2008 6:07:13 PM
Sounds a lot like an auto-immune disease a friend's daughter has. *sigh*
She will tell you ... but the way I always think of it is as if they could 'talk'. what would she say to ME now .... "Hey -- the important thing to me is __________________ ... and as long as I can do that or enjoy that ... I'm fine. "
With some dogs it's simply eat, drink or sleep. With my Muffin it was pet therapy -- even long after he couldn't eat any more (he was a mega chow hound before, but food just wasn't as important as his cancer kids) he was doing pet therapy. With my sheltie mix, Foxy -- he just plain told me he was too 'tired'. Too tired to try to stand and pee, too tired to take water ... just plain too tired. It was like he said "I'm done now" in my head.
With some it's just plain putting an end to their pain. some of them would stay around forever no matter what JUST to be with us ...
All I can tell you is that you won't make the wrong decision. You just plain won't. Because what's deep inside the dog will touch deep inside you ... so don't doubt yourself when you do make the decision. it will be the right one.