calliecritturs
Posted : 12/9/2007 3:10:37 PM
Stacita
I was an ecomomics major.
Tasha's right knee is a "sunk cost". When I evaluate Tasha's expenses in the future, it is illogical to consider the cost of that knee because it is done and gone. When Floyd went through his battle with multiple mast cell cancer, it really helped me to think that way. I was able to consider each surgery, each visit to a holistic vet, etc. as a fresh beginning.
I wasn't scolding you at all!! I'm MARRIED to an accountant!!! It just tickled me to see you slide into that same mode David does. "cost benefit anaylsis" -- and it always comes out in the dog's best interest with him too -- but I tease HIM about "talking like an accountant" .
I was just giggling because it's like each of these dogs tends to be sent to each of us for purpose. ME? I'm the mommy-healer, pack-understander type. I'm gonna help everbuddy's owies, and if you go to mom she'll make you feel better. Dad, altho we both work and contribute, he's the one with the calculator in his brain of what we have to do to make this happen.
Stacita
I'm happy to say Floyd has shown no signs of cancer in two years. December 13, 2005, was the last. It is a possibility that severe stress could trigger it.
But I always know the value of these dogs. If two knees need to be done, they'll be done before too much arthritis settles. I love this dog and I know him. I'm happy with the choices I made for Tasha, but maybe Floyd needs different care. Tasha is stoic and Floyd is not. If she limps severely, she's feeling more pain than his occasional mild limp. He gets an owie and runs to mommy for a good cuddle. She doesn't.
But you bring up such a VALID IMPORTANT POINT. What one dog can tolerate another dog may not want to. I think it's important to consider that too.
David and I were talking the other day -- the first cocker we had who had so many varied health issues (demodex, ear problems/ear ablations/deafness, cancer and treatment) -- for him he'd go thru ANYTHING if it meant he could minister to his beloved kids at the hospitals and cancer centers -- it was as if he saw each and every challenge in his life as something more he had in common with a sick child.
BILLY, on the other paw, is NOT like that. giving, loving, and he loves pet therapy in his own way. BUT he is not as motivated to go thru extreme "feeling bad" the way Muffin was.
We've spent a boodle of money on Billy BUT everything we did completely alleviated suffering right away. If he ever had something that would require a severely decreased quality of life the "decision" for him would be COMPLETELY different than it was for Muffin. The hard part with Muffin was knowing where to put the period at the end because as far as he was concerned if he could help even one more child NO PROBLEM I don't mind feeling yucky!! Billy would not be that way at all -- even having his skin be inflamed can put him into a major funk.
Sooooooooooo you make an incredibly valuable point.
But I surely wasn't making fun or scolding you. Not at all -- I just think it's so much fun when we get a real glimpse into the "real person" in all of us that nobuddy ever sees. You and I might arrive at the very same conclusion, but the way you expressed that was 100% YOU (well, something I obviously saw that you shared in common with my husband's way of phrasing a thing.)