LoveMy Silkies
Posted : 6/15/2006 2:44:48 PM
I love this topic because it really hits home.
I am a public school teacher, single, mortgaged up to my ears and then some. But after paying all my bills every month, supposedly I have $350 left over for leeway. I say "supposedly" because that $350 always gets spent at the vet.
I have two twin silky terriers, 13 years old, who have mostly been healthy up until the last three years or so. I have spent untold thousands on them the last several years, what with eye surgery and so on. This year alone I have spent $3,400 at the veterinary opthalmologist for glaucoma and cataract issues, eye injuries and inflammation and finally eye removal. Then there are the regular vet bills for annual check up, vaccinations, dental cleanings and extractions, colitis, and what else I don't know. And let's not forget all the maintenance meds and special canned diet food.
Katie is recuperating from eye removal surgery this afternoon; and now Elizabeth is passing blood clots in her urine. The vet looked at her urine sample and said there are strong indications of bladder cancer cells; so now we are doing a $300 abdominal ultrasound next week to get a better look at what's going on. If it is indeed bladder cancer, the survival statistics are grim from what I've researched on the web (3 to 7 months on average). I've already decided that if that happens, there will be no chemo, radiation or heroic measures. I feel she is too old for that, and -- having watched my mother go through chemo three weeks before dying of cancer -- I'm against it. Plus I literally cannot afford to spend another couple of thousand dollars.
I've already had a good cry this afternoon and now I'm trying to wrap my mind around the possibility of saying good bye to my baby some time before Christmas. That would absolutely rip my heart out.
I live very frugally. I get all of my clothes and shoes at Target! I put off hair cuts as long as I can. I haven't taken a vacation since 2001. I'm always looking for free deals and entertainment to cut corners. The sad truth is that one day when my babies are gone, I will be finally able to start saving into a 401k. And maybe take that long awaited vacation. Until then, I'm going to keep saving every penny for the next vet visit.