Kim White
Posted : 5/16/2006 3:20:00 PM
Awe Cathy a girl,after my own heart about the Alpha situation...I run into enough Alpha bitches driving on the hwy's now days and in other places. Our world has become so hard a ruthless and over bearing at times I just don't want that enviroment in my home.
Listen this is the way I look at it... Alley is the Alpha of my 5 dogs so that is her job and I don't want it...
And who in the world wants to be treated with harsh rules when you don't feel good. Heck when we don't feel good we all want to be pampered and having understanding and kindness.
Im not saying I let my dogs run all over me.... they know when they are suppose to behave and listen.
I HATE CRATES..... Alley's never been in one can you imagine me using one now?... I have a real hang up with crates. I guess it has to do with me doing Rescue and seeing dogs live in cages their entire lives... I only used them when I was doing transports. When I fostered they had dog runs that were 7 feet by 7 feet

I also did placements but wouldn't place dogs with anyone who said they would crate the dog. Like I said they lived in crates there entire lives so that is were my hang up is with crates. I know some dogs love them mine never did.... that is entirely different subject but Iv had negative results when I use to crate my 3 Westies at night.
The positive attitude has made a big difference. I think she was feeling my stress of "OH GEESE LOOK AT THIS SKIN HERE WE GO AGAIN" Now I whisper in her ear.. "wanna go bye bye" so none of the other dogs know. IF we go see Pat my Holisitic vet then we go to McDonalds after for either a cheesie burger or icecream..not both...LOL
Again My Vet like the grilling idea for her dogs as well for when she travels cause then she can put everything meaning veggies in to one patty for her dogs.