April
Posted : 4/10/2007 9:35:39 AM
So, an update. Things are...gosh, I don't know. The thing that I am completely confused about in all of this is that we've had storm-free weather for
2 weeks now. And now, instead of being scared of
only storms, Lady is generally unable to be alone, period, as I mentioned earlier. This is a dog that 6 weeks ago could have not cared less about our comings and goings and was frequently in a dead sleep when I returned home from work. Nothing about her diet, or our routine, or our living situation, has changed in the last month. Same house, same family, same food. She has no apparent physical problems, as confirmed by both us and her vet.
Last week during the day we either left her with family or the vet's office so that she wouldn't damage anything or hurt herself. When she stays at these places during the day, she is fine. We get no feedback about her being neurotic or anxious...yesterday she was at my parents' house and she spent most of the day sleeping. So on Friday we had our dog trainer come to the house and discuss Lady's issues. She gave us a lot of good ideas, but obviously we know nothing is just going to happen overnight.
So starting Saturday during the day we'd go out for 5, 10, 30 minutes. She didn't do any damage. Saturday evening we went to the hardware store (which is about 2 blocks from our house,) and were gone for about an hour, maybe a bit less. We came back and Lady was fine -- no damage, no soiling. She was a little anxious when we walked in, but we followed our instructions from the vet/trainer and ignored her for about 15-30 minutes until she calmed down. She was doing pretty well and so the next day we felt pretty confident about leaving her for a similar amount of time (about 1.5/2 hours). This time she dug up the carpeting again. [

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Has anyone ever heard of anything like this -- full-on separation anxiety coming out of basically nowhere? We have never left her home alone for more than a work day (which given that we leave at different times comes to about 7 hours max alone time.) She gets a long walk before we leave every morning...plus she's an older dog and usually her favorite thing in the world is sleeping. I used to laugh because on days when I'd stay home from work, she'd look at me like, "Um, can you please leave? This is the time of day when you guys leave me alone to nap!"
I just wish I could get inside this dog's head -- the only thing that changed even a
little in the last few weeks is that the storms came back. Is she afraid a storm is going to hit when she's alone? Is she suddenly, inexplicably, super-attached to us after almost a full year of living with us? Why would she go from being fine by herself on non-storm days to going completely crazy whenever we leave? She gets exercise, we don't smother her with attention, we have never made a big production of coming or going...
I know we've still got a lot of behavior shaping to do, and we'll be working on it. I just wish I knew
why this came up in the first place...