Good bye dear friend

Rainbow Bridge

The Rainbow Bridge is the theme of a work of poetic prose written some time between 1980 and 1992, whose original creator is unknown. The theme is of an other-worldly place to which a pet goes upon its death, eventually to be reunited with its owner.
    • Gold Top Dog

    Good bye dear friend

    Well it's been over a week now and still hard to talk or write about it without bawling.

    On Sunday 9/9/07 I had to help my old boy Ch York's Whailin' Willie CGC to the bridge, he was 13. The cancer finally won out over his body although he never showed any signs of pain or discomfort. He was till the end my very best friend always here to support me. I still can't believe he is gone and each day is a struggle when I leave work to go home. My heart is broken.

    Willie was my first Am Staff and show dog and Champion, in the rings and my heart. He taught me how to show and was very forgiving while doing so. He led me to work against bad dog laws and to get involved the way I am in public education. In fact I probably owe him for this twisted life in dogs and how I came to work here. He was a great impact on my entire family and taught us all how to win with pride and lose with grace. Always a gentleman. I always said he would never protect me if I needed him too because he loved everyone. He proved me wrong with that at a bike event one day when he showed me that he would protect me in his way if he felt I was threatened. Willie was laying on the ground in front of my feet and as this guy approached he stood up, mind you about 50 people passed us prior to this and he remained in a down stay. As the guy spoke to me he was attempting to move around Willie to sit on the bench next to me, Willie maintained eye contact with the guy and moved as he did, just watching him until he jumped on the bench between the two of us to keep himself in the middle, never did he bark, growl or attempt to be protective towrds this guy but I knew what he was doing. It amazed me as with everything he did through his life.

    I've never wanted to make this final choice with him, I had always hoped and asked him to go on his own. In life and in death he made his own choices. His spirit and mind were with him in full force but his body gave out. Bill and I were away from the house about two hours at a dog show where one of our frenchie girls won big. We showed and quickly returned for Willie who we found now bleeding internally. On the way to the show we spoke and cried that it was time and I decided that we would go that night but just wanted to wait until Dana and Dustin returned from working the Groom Expo that night. When we got home we couldn't wait any longer and rushed Willie to the Emergency clinic. He walked inon his own, wagging his tail and greeting everyone who came to help us. When the Dr. came in he walked right up to him and smiled, wagged his tail like "Hi I'm Willie" the Dr. was so taken by him he made the comment,"I know this has to be hard he has such a great temperment even threw whats going on now". As Willie was leaving me I bent down and kissed the top of his head, he looked up and licked my tears away as he has done so many times before in his life to comfort me only this would be the last time.

    He has been a great friend and is missed dearly, our dog's lives are much too short

     

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    Oh Jaime, reading that made me cry.  Willie was obviously a fantastic dog who will be greatly missed by everyone who's lives he touched.  Take the time you need to heal from this, but remember that Willie licked your tears away - he did not want you to cry.

    *hugs*

    Kate 

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    once again Jaime I'm so sorry for your loss.

    This was a lovely passage to read, you wrote your heart down and it was an honor to read it.

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    I'm so sorry for your loss--there's never any words that can take away the pain a person feels at this time.  All I can say is that he is finally at peace. You'll be in my prayers.

     

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    The sheltie mix walked back and forth and forth and back and backing and forthing until it prompted his other herder buddy waiting on the sidelines to say "Foxy WILL YOU STOP??  Willie will come over that Bridge at the RIGHT time and your pacing isn't going to make it easier."

    "Dancer, I HAVE to pace ... Your Mom and My Mom would WANT us to pace ... this is Jaime's friend Willie coming and we both know it, as does this whole crowd of dogs waiting here at the bottom of the Bridge for him ... darn .. now you've messed me up ... I don't know if this was 'back' ... or 'forth' ... "

    "Foxy - here he comes.  This is a champion show dog coming - he's gonna laugh himself silly when he sees your liddle sheltie feets forthing and backing -- but you'd better get out of the way cos the whole bunch of us want to welcome WILLIE!!!!!!"

    The tan and white staffie galloped to the bottom of the Bridge and just stood looking at the HUGE crowd of welcoming dogs to see him ... and then he said ...."Wow -- when I left Mom was crying -- but if she saw THIS she'd be thrilled ....THANKS FOLKS!! I'm WILLIE!!!"

    (Jaime -- I can't help it -- that's how I see it ... I'm so sorry hon.  The empty house syndrome will ... fade.  Some.  But I"m here if you need me!)

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    I'm so sorry for your loss .He'll be waiting for you at the Rainbow bridge
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    Nothing can comfort like we wish it could ... but know we shed tears with you, because we understand what a loss it really is when we lose such a great friend.  If you get a minute, please reference my post in the Rainbow Bridge section ... "Another Beautiful Poem ..." I think you will relate.  I hope you find peace ... and know he's still with you -- lots of hugs.

    • Gold Top Dog

       Your tribute to Willie is beautiful; I have tears as I'm posting this. I hope as time passes the many wonderful memories of him will help ease the pain. I'm so sorry.

    • Gold Top Dog

    Oh Jaime, I'm so sorry and just reading your post made me cry and brought back such sad memories of going thru almost the exact same thing when we had to let our lab, Jake, pass on.  That final decision, the drive to the vets, walking in...all of it is just so heartwrenching.  Willie was very special and I know that one day your wonderful memories will replace your tears with a smile. Hugs to you. 

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     I'm so sorry about Willie. Sound like you two really enhanced each other's lives.

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    I didn't know about this. I am SO sorry! I too, cried as I read your post. My thoughts are with you...  

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    Jaime, I am very sorry for your loss.  Rest in peace, Willie.

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    We're all still thinking of you Jaime.

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    I don't know you very well but I am sharing your heartbreak now.  You see my Blizzard is in the final stages of cancer.  My sentiment is the same in that I hope she goes on her own.  Your story gives me a glimpse of whats to come.  So sad.  Oh, I do feel for you and I am sorry for Willie's departure.  Be comforted by the good memories, experiences, and what this dog has taught you.  Take care.  

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    OH My Gosh... Willie sounds just like FeFe. Even in bad health, they still wag their tails and present themselves in such a positive way. My heart aches for you. I know it was a hard decision to make. I prayed many many nights that God would have HIS way and that I wouldn't have to make that choice for FeFe. We were lucky. Fe went in her own time but it didn't make it less difficult. I'm so sorry for your loss.... but I know Willie is in such good company at The Bridge.