tacran
Posted : 9/13/2006 11:01:10 PM
Lisa Marie, what a beautiful eulogy you wrote for your sweet furbuddy, Miles. Your words describing his manner and personality, along with his antics were so touching; I feel like I know him a little bit!
My deepest condolences go out to your friends (and to you). Such a terrible shock, and at a time when their hearts should be filled with joy and excitement. How could they be prepared for handling such sadness so unexpectedly -- it didn't sound like Miles had been ill from what your post said. I'm glad that you were able to say goodbye to him. We've had 3 friends lose pets in the past 3-4 months, and it makes me so sad that I didn't get to pet them one last time and say goodbye. I would've like to hold them one last time time and give them a few extra kisses to take with them for when my Tonka greeted them at the Bridge.
One positive thing I would try to hang on to would be that Miles was in a place where he was most comfortable, familiar and relaxed. One can only assume he didn't suffer in any way, and only drifted into a peaceful sleep in the home he loved. As someone who had to make a heart-wrenching decision to euthanize our dog earlier this year, there were days in Tonka's final weeks when we prayed he would die in his sleep. Instead, his final moments were in a sterile, flourescent lit room instead of somewhere we all felt more comfortable, and that's something that still makes my heart hurt so much.
Regardless of how our beloved pets leave us, it is devastating. My heart goes out to you and your friends. Run free Miles -- and if you're looking for blueberry bagels at the Bridge, you just have to follow the trail of drool left by my Tonka. He's a huge carb addict, and bagels are one of his favorites. He'll know where all the good bakeries are at the Bridge. Watch over your Mom and Dad on their special day - they'll feel your spirit there beside them.