I wanted to just point out that it's usually considered a no no to speak about PM received from other members in public. It's rather like a private discussion being then taken to over 100+ people. I cannot ask that you edit your post but I do wish you would...it's something that could start a potentially hurtful incident. People are entitled to their privacy should they not wish to discuss things that happen with their animals...and it's really Tamara's place to decide the time and manner she discusses the Fudge issue with the forum...if she even wants to.
This PM isn't meant to make you feel bad...since I have no idea if you are aware of the whole PM sharing issue. But if you think about yourself as the one who PM's someone something private...and that is then discussed publicly...well I think you can see where I am going.
If you would like I can remove the post...or you can always edit it....but I will not ask that it be done or make it a mandatory thing....just trying to help out a member who's been here a long time and been thru some real issues here.
Thank you,
Gina H.
Moderator."