Check the report forum. Ixas_girl reported the PM I sent her the other day, the body of which I edited out of her report because it was already cc'd to Jill and Jaime by me when I sent it.
All of her assumptions are wrong, she's trying to bait me and frankly I don't care what she says, that discussion was not typical. The number of people who refused to participate in the behavior section while she was moderating, myself included, it speaks for itself, as do the red-ink filled threads that used to be in there.
I'm stepping back from this and not giving her the satisfaction. I am NOT going to engage with her. She can claim until she's blue in the face that her well-wishes and nice things she said were sincere and I will never believe it. I have been on the receiving end of her blatant nastiness enough that I'm not able to believe her.
I'm actually really upset and going to hug my dog. She might disagree with me and that's fine, but she says some really insulting things (though well-cloaked) in there and makes some assumptions that are both erroneous and hurtful, not to mention incredibly condescending.