spiritdogs
Posted : 7/29/2007 4:31:49 PM
I, for one, feel that Glenda's style of moderating is very adult, and not without considerable merit. When she corresponds with me, I listen, and when Jaime would do so, I would accede to her wishes. Why? Because, folks, they were FAIR. With the recent events, I have very much felt that the red ink had more to do with who I am and what I believe, than it does with the forum rules. The red was flying so fast, I didn't even see it before I had racked it all up. (No, I don't always read my PM's first, if I am busy posting). I think that this mod carried over her dislike for my opinions into her mod job, and not accidentally. Sorry, but that's how I perceive it. And, the reason I never get red-inked by Glenda is not because we are tight on the forum, it's because she does not get her underpants in an uproar because someone disagrees or points out a flaw. She gets angry when it gets personal, directed at another member. And, to be honest, she has let go some of the crap that has been thrown at me, I believe, so that other forum members will not think there's a clicque of any kind, which there has not been. JMHO, but this is feeling like junior high, and the best thing you guys could do is either remove the CM threads, or let members post opposing views there. We don't throw anyone off the clicker threads for saying it didn't work for them - sure, we might explain how it could, or suggest that their technique was wrong, or why we still think it's the best method, but no one tells them they can't talk about another method. That's just infantile, and not helpful for the transmission of legitimate knowledge.