I really want to be deleted

If I were you I would delete out any and all pictures you've uploaded, and then go ahead and go to your posts and edit them and delete whatever out of it. 

 Even if they "ban" you it won't remove you (you can go back and find posts of people who have been banned). 

I'm so sorry you've been harassed -- I *have* been stalked before and to be perfectly honest, you can trust ***yourself*** to protect yourself, so just go to any/all posts and delete them.  (in other words -- if YOU do it you will know what info is there and what is NOT there, and I highly doubt they can fully delete anything massively -- I doubt it's possible and all the mods are merely volunteers)

There also exists the posts before the forum changed 5 years ago?  And I think you were active back then? 

I'm honestly not sure they *can* delete you. 

At the very least you will likely want to change your 'nickname' online.  I'm not being glib -- "callie" is no part of my own 'real' name and that all grew out of the fact that I had to ditch an ex who stalked me online & in real life.  It's not fair -- when it's a name that has been "yours" for ages, but you can't replace "you" and you CAN change' your online personna. 

Just make sure you delete any email stuff out of your profile, and deactivate that account. 

In fact, I"m pretty sure if you ASK the moderators they will "deactivate" you (which is what happens when you are banned) but that is NOT going to remove anything you've posted.  I just went back and checked -- I can still see banned people who are "friends" and their name/pic shows up but if I click on them it says they are deactivated.  So I doubt highly that you can be "deleted" in any way -- that just doesn't happen.  But you can make yourself un-contactable, and dry up all the lose ends. 

You shouldn't need to delete "all" your posts-- only ones that refer to family and personal information

 Feel free to email me if you want -- like I said, I *have* dealt with this before and I truly "get" what that sort of anguish and anger is, and I know the steps I took then (and STILL do).

My email is in my signature -- if you want to know the stuff I did to get rid of the jerk let me know.  I was pretty danged successful.  There are certain things, like having your mail come to the mailbox down at the road that can make it incredibly easy to "keep track of you".  grrrrrr

if only there were a way to make it so that members only could see your replies. stinkin information highway

 All you need to do is contact a Moderator, or use the link to contact an admin.  Feel free to PM me here.  Your content will stay out here, but it won't have your username associated to it.

DumDog

no one has replied to me yet on this topic in personal messages.

 no PM here either

What they are saying is DON'T contact Dog.com -- you won't get anywhere.  But sending a personal message to a moderator (like those two above) should get you help.

 I tried sending a message via email first, which was pointless as Callie pointed out. And like Gina said, things i have deleted from other areas are still popping up in search results (just enough information) but once you click on it the results are dead. I dont know how long that info stays. Google has some method of slowly systematically updating things(something to do with spiders?) and of course other accounts i have deactivated are hoping people will change their minds so they make you wait thirty days before actually removing anything at all

Thanks for the help everyone, I THINK i have it under control now but i'm still jumpy.

rwbeagles

and info will be cached online for awhile too, with your name attached. Bummer you are having stalker issues too, stay safe.

I hadn't gotten a message either.  But, we can try to help out... just as everyone is saying, sometimes it's not that simple.  Good advice, in general, never post information you don't want to remain in cyberspace forever.  Hope things work out for you Dumdog.