Sunshinegirl
Posted : 6/18/2009 10:27:49 PM
I realized that when I posted my opinion, some might take offense. (not my intention)..... however, if you go back and read my statement, I said that "most," not ALL homes w/"young" children should not have pets, take it for what it's worth. I have seen and heard some crazy, horrible things that young kids have done to the family pet (intentionally or not) that never should have happened. Abuses that occurred due to lack of supervision and education. In my time volunteering I've been in the introduction room with small children & their parents and witnessed children hitting, pulling, slapping yelling in ears, etc., while mommy and daddy sat there and laughed thinking it was "cute!" Good Lord, what in the world would happen to that poor animal *if* he/she went home with that family. Needless to say, none of the animals on my watch went home w/these families.
I certainly do not think that couples who have pets prior to or after having children should get rid of their pets, unfortunately it happens all the time. It's sad and horrible, BUT if it's in the animals best interest, then so be it. I think that those who bring a child into a household with pets have a responsibility to make a commitment to educating their child on how to care for their pets, do's and don'ts and so on..... As a mother of two grown daughters, I can say from experience that it is difficult to be in the same room as your growing kids 100% of the time - it just doesn't happen and kids will be kids. You hope that what you've taught them is enough to guarantee the pets safety, but it's not always the case.
I took my dogs w/me to a friend's house for a cook out a few weeks ago and his sister's 1.5 year old toddled up to Layla and slapped her right in the face!!!! The kid's mom was sitting right there and didn't say a flippin' word!!!! I said nicely, "please don't hit the doggie, it hurts her." Then we got up and moved away. Fortunately Layla didn't bite him for obvious reasons. Needless to say, I was pissed that the mom didn't say or do anything - she saw the whole thing and just sat there!! In fact, I think she was mad that I said something to her kid........
I do know people who have kids and pets, some have issues a few don't. I would fathom to guess that idoggers here would (and do) do just fine - I believe that we are all supremely dedicated to our pets and we are the exception. My friends think it's crazy that I cook for my dogs........... nuff said.........