Calling all you southerners (mrstjohnson) - Updated -

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    Two CUPS of sugar in a gallon of tea??  Shudders just ran down my spine!

    I'm a Yankee, and yankee's pretty much drink UNsweetened tea.  I've gotten to where I like a teeny squeeze of lemon now, but sweet?  Blech!

    In my area, perhaps because of the tourist influx, almost everyplace offers sweet or unsweet tea, but having lived in GA, I make SURE that I specify!

    Got the fingers crossed for you Lisa!  Honestly, I've lived so many places, in so many states, that I'm more a gypsy, but MI has such a sucky economy already and it's just gonna get worse if GM can't get their sh!t together.

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    glenmar
    Two CUPS of sugar in a gallon of tea??  Shudders just ran down my spine!

     

    LMAO!!  The sweeter, the Better!!!

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    RidgebackGermansShep

     I don't think KY is really considered the south, but maybe. Small towns around here are usually pretty bad, but i see none of the mentioned problems in Lexington at all. Lexington's not really a big town either...not sure of the population but i think it's about 250,000.

    Haha. To a former northener it is. It is actually on dividing line so to speak.

    I remember the day we moved in, it was just me and my DH, and we had some heavy furniture that was being difficut and our new neighbors came and helped. They gave us some tea (slightly sweet) and fed us lunch! I was so touched by that southern hospitality.

    And then came the first "everyone moves slow" encounter, I had just finished shopping at the local Winn Dixie and was driving out of the lot and some people were walking right down the middle of the lane, and boy were they taking there time, and I and other's just sat and waited. I remember chuckling and thinking "they really do move slow!"

     

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    Truley

    And then came the first "everyone moves slow" encounter, I had just finished shopping at the local Winn Dixie and was driving out of the lot and some people were walking right down the middle of the lane, and boy were they taking there time, and I and other's just sat and waited. I remember chuckling and thinking "they really do move slow!"

    They spotted a Northerner and said "look a Yankee, lets do the walking in the middle of the lane thang.  They chuckled all the way home." LOL  Just kidding, I think.
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    I just saw this...I am so sorry.  I didnt read all the posts.  I hope you consider coming here.  I live in the area and its wonderful you will love it!!!!!!!  There are so many small towns around within 20 to 30 Minutes from the HQ that you could pick and choose according to what you want.  There are many rural areas that could be found for minimal rent.  Bentonville is booming, still, to me a little busier than I like but I live about 20 mile west of Fayetteville in the country on two acres and its great.   There is so much happening in this area but even still, you are 1 1/2 from Tulsa if you want more big town entertainment.  Please dont hesitate to email me or pm me and I will help all I can with information!!!!  Whohoo I am so excited for you! 

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    I just saw this too. I'm in Little Rock, so quite a ways away from Bentonville, but still one of the biggest cities in Arkansas. Even in the bigger cities we're still behind the rest of the nation in a lot of ways though, so be prepared for that. It may be different in Bentonville since it's the northernmost part of the state, but here there's not much nightlife. Restaurants and things tend to close earlier than you're probably used to and unless you're going to an actual bar there isn't much to do after dark. Most places are closed or have very limited hours on Sundays and almost everybody attends church regularly.

    While the southern hospitality thing is right on the mark, that can border on nosiness if you're not used to it. Its not at all unusual to ask someone you just met what church they go to, or why they moved here or any number of semi-intrusive questions. Depending on the neighborhood you land in you could also have neighbors that stop by unannounced, or ask you about people you have over. It's not intended to be rude though, just sort of a way to foster community. Gossip is also a big bonding activity, so expect that.

    We definitely don't have any Italian markets. We have a few Hispanic markets and a couple of Asian markets though. A great bonus to being close to so much farm land is that we have fantastic farmer's markets too. There are some coops here that organize them all year round so that the farmers with winter produce (either seasonal or grown in greenhouses) can reach the public more effectively. I'm not aware of any groups as far north as Bentonville, but I'm willing to bet they're there. I don't know what you feed your dogs, but I know for sure there are a couple of raw food coops for NW Arkansas.

    As far as schools go, the public schools are not great. Actually, they're pretty bad. We do have some great private schools, but they're all religious. As far as dog friendliness, I wouldn't count on it. The state still requires annual rabies vaccination, and does not have any exemption allowance. Around here there is one fenced in dog park, and its small and completely unmonitored. A huge portion of dog owners are uneducated about positive training and a lot of hunting and farm dog myths are hailed as common knowledge.

    Another thing to consider is that there are a lot of drugs here. The ability to drive 20 minutes from the city and be in the middle of the country makes it a pretty ideal place to grow pot or make meth. Plus, we (here in Little Rock, not sure about Bentonville specifically) have high rates of gang crimes, rape, and teen pregnancies. Don't get me wrong, it's not like the city is run by the mafia. It's really all small time stuff, but it's out there.

    On the other hand, the whole state is beautiful. Bentonville is pretty close to Devil's Den, Beaver Lake, and the Botanical Garden. There are tons of spots for hiking and camping. The Buffalo River (an hour or so away?) is one of my dad's favorite trout fishing spots. Fayetteville has an annual motorcycle rally, and Siloam Springs has a dogwood festival every year when the dogwoods bloom.

    If you like to take mini road trips there are quite a few places around the state that would be interesting to spend a weekend. Hot Springs is full of artists and is a little touristy, but it has an abandoned hospital that looks down over downtown. It also has the actual hot springs that you can collect water from and I believe they still keep one of the old bathhouses operation through part of the year. Eureka Springs is also a bit of an artist's haven, but much more hippie friendly. They have a haunted hotel you can stay in, and tons of artists' shops to see.

    That's all I can think of, but if you have any more questions feel free to ask or PM me. I've lived here all my life and wouldn't want to live anywhere else.

    -Rebecca
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    Truley, I admire your patience.  Unless they had been really old and using walkers, I think I would have snuck up behind them and leaned on the horn. Devil Tea is always served unsweetened here.  You just put however much sugar/sweetener you want in your own. Sometimes I think going to a totally different part of the country must be almost like landing on a different planet.

    Joyce

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    mrstjohnson
    P.S. I HATE sweet tea.  I would make it for guests but there is no way I am drinking it.  Only unsweetened tea for this Yankee girl Wink

    Me too -- but the one ace in the hole is that a lot of places serve UN-sweet (but they want to know where you want them to set the Sweet-n-lo or Equal because of COURSE you must have ordered it un-sweetened because you want to use artificial sweetener right???

    BLEAHHHCCHHHHHHH

    *laughing*  My husband still cracks up at that one -- and it only took him like EIGHT years of living here to get over cringing at the idea of drinking tea ... er .. um .... COLD???? (remember he's a Brit).  ahhhh it's all dependant on what we're used to!! LOL

     

     

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    calliecritturs

    Me too -- but the one ace in the hole is that a lot of places serve UN-sweet (but they want to know where you want them to set the Sweet-n-lo or Equal because of COURSE you must have ordered it un-sweetened because you want to use artificial sweetener right???

    Too funny!  Actually I am a southerner born and raised and I dont like sweet "tayee" (lol either.  You will notice the tea is not pronouned "tee" its reallllllly drawn out   Taaaayyyyeee! Hehehe!

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    JackieG
    They spotted a Northerner and said "look a Yankee, lets do the walking in the middle of the lane thang.  They chuckled all the way home." LOL  Just kidding, I think.

    ROTFLMBO!!!!!!!!!!!

     

     

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    Callie, does David ever drink coffee?  Cold?  I make a full pot in the summer and pour it into a pitcher to keep in the fridge.  If the a.m. is already warm, I just pour it over ice in a tall glass and add whatever I'd add to it if it was hot ... in my case that would be sweetener and whatever yummy flavored coffee creamer I have on hand. Right now that's a choice between Southern Butter Pecan and White Chocolate Raspberry. Big Smile

    Joyce

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    My current fave is Coffeemate Italian Sweet Cream.  So smooth and creamy, and with that I don't have to add as much sugar to my coffee.
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    Nope -- we both like (me more than him) a thick coffee/icey kind of thing (like Panera's Icey Mocha - except I get mine without chocolate).  I don't like sweet *anything* in tea or coffee really -- not hot nor cold.  I have a hard time down here quite frequently because it's so "Southern" to eat everything so heavily sweet.  Folks down here put sugar in EVERYTHING -- from butter to drinks to BBQ sauce and beyond. 

    I can eat grits and eggs with the best of them, but keep the darned sugar out of stuff! *LOL*  About the WORST for me is trying to have a slice of bread with dinner and finding someone put HONEY/sweet butter on the table.  ugh. 

    That really IS a Southern thing more than anything ... (and yes, folks, I really do put butter, salt and pepper on my baked sweet potato!!) LOL (I can hear all the Southerners and half the Northerners going ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww)

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    Those coffee creamers are totally addicting, aren't they?  I've gotten so if I go out for  coffee and all they have is *plain* cream, I feel like there's something missing. I love the Gingerbread one and the Peppermint that come out during the holidays.

    Joyce

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    My parents live in Tulsa and I visit them about every two years. You're certainly right about the slower pace of things and I live in OREGON where the easterners consider us s-l-o-w!

    Everyone was very friendly there.  My dad talks to everyone (as do I, must be in my genes Wink) and therefore makes friends everywhere he goes.However, I was struck by what was NOT in the local stores.  I use spring mix for salads and NOBODY had it.  however, I could get a huge bag of collard greens! LOL In general, the foods were less healthy and I am NOT a health food nut, just into eating decently. Just TRY to find tofu in a regular store! LOL

    As for tea, I have to have mine unsweetened.  Sometimes I add Equal, sometimes it's plain.