How old were you?

    • Gold Top Dog

    How old were you?

     When you left home.

    I was 17. 2 months shy of my 18th bday. I had wanted to leave since I was 15. So the day my Grandpa said he had talked to my Grandma about letting me leave was the best day ever! I couldnt wait to get home from school. And when I did I packed everything and left. It was getting really hairy around there at the end so the sooner I got out the better it was for both of us.

    Samantha has been asking me about my parents and such so I've been thinking about things lately.

    So when did you leave home and was it good or bad? You dont have to answer that last part if you dont want.

    • Gold Top Dog

    I kinda ooozed out.  I was living with my dad after high school graduation in June of 94 and that November, he took a job in California.  So my sister moved back to our childhood home and she and I lived there until she got married the following June.  I sure thought I'd be able to live there by myself but not too long after Lana left, I turned chicken and ended up moving in with my mom.  That lasted maybe a year.  I say lasted, it was more like I was just ready to get out and explore.  I was commuting to college and working at a dry cleaners and my co-worker was looking for a roommate.  It would be a first apartment for both of us and we were so excited.  I was 19 at the time.  Long story short, this arrangement didn't last so I talked dad into helping me with my own apartment.  I was 20 by the time that happened.  Turns out I did like living by myself afterall.

    • Gold Top Dog

    I graduated high school a month after turning 16.  My dog & I moved out the day after graduation.  For me, it was a very good thing.  My mother & I probably would have killed each other had I stayed any longer.  It was also nice to be able to get through college a few years ahead of schedule, & I do feel like leaving early has helped me to get ahead, career wise.

    • Gold Top Dog

    I graduated after my first sememster of senior year. I stayed living at home for the second half of the school year and went from working part time to full time to save up some money. I moved to Milwaukee with a friend in the summer. I was 18. I had a good relationship with my parents, but they were both going through mid-life crises at the time. I was glad to get out, but I felt bad leaving my little brother in the middle of the mess.

    A few years later, after college, (future)DH and I moved back from Colorado and moved in with his mom. We lived there a couple of years and were able to save up a big chunk of change for a down payment on a house. It was a little uncomfortable but well worth it. 

    • Gold Top Dog

     I left home when I was 22/23.  I wish it could have been sooner.  I lived at home, working, going to school full time AND I paid rent to live at home (while putting myself through college) PLUS I was expected to do 99% of the household chores despite working a lot of hours and going to school full time.  I love my Mom, we're very close...moreso now that I am out of her house.  I couldn't afford though to get an apartment and go to school fulltime, and nor did I want to room with a million people just to afford to do so. 

     

    • Gold Top Dog

     I got married and left home when I was 16.  I was still in school until I had a surgery that didn't go too well and I had to miss a lot of school and the way things go here, you miss so many days, you have to repeat the grade.  So I dropped out and finished my schooling at home. 

    • Gold Top Dog

     Moved out for college just before I turned 18.  My DH lived with my parents for a summer when we were still going out but I never went back.

    • Bronze

    22.

    I graduated (community college) at 20 and worked two years, saving every penny I could, until I had enough for a substantial down payment on a 1400 sq. ft. home on an acre of land.

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    • Gold Top Dog

     

    I moved out two days after HS graduation, I was 17, but I went to live with my sister and her husband to prep for college.  Life went on a whirlwind after that.  As life usually does, I guess.
    • Gold Top Dog

    I went away to college when I was just 18 (lived on campus) and immediately after I graduated at 19 I moved out within 10 days of getting home.  I live  almost 2000 miles from my parents and THAT is how we get along the best.

    • Gold Top Dog

     

    I haven't left yet. I'll be 24 in a month. I can't really afford to go. I have no idea when I'm going to go. I almost did last year, but I thought about it too long. I don't like doing major things if I don't do it impulsively.
    • Gold Top Dog

    I was 20. Had finished high school a few months before (german school is an extra year and i was schooled late).

    Left on good terms. My mom had left her city to go work at 16 and was always the independant type, so when i brought it up, she understood and even helped me find a place. My relationship with her got better after i moved out too. In my family we are all hot headed, and even though we weren't on bad terms before, things just got so much easier after i moved out.

    • Gold Top Dog

    I was 19.  I HAD to live with my parents as a freshman or live on campus (I went to college in my home town), so I moved out during May of my freshman year. My dad and I nearly killed each other!

    • Gold Top Dog

    I moved out when I was 25.  I met my now DH and he moved in with me...we broke up and both went our separate ways.  I went back home and he moved out of state.  We got back together, he moved home and I stayed at my parents until we got married when I was 28.  I have always had a wonderful relationship with my parents...I would move back with them now if they would let us Wink

    • Gold Top Dog

     Went to college in another state after high school.  I went home for summers a few times but by senior year was staying in MA instead of NY.  Never been back for more than a visit since.