sterlingfan40
Posted : 5/18/2009 10:18:56 PM
Ok, now that we’ve established that I’m a bad dog owner, how about I give those that are more knowledgeable and better dog owners the opportunity to tell me what I’m doing wrong.
It’s funny how people one doesn’t know and probably never will can have such an impact on someone’s self esteem. But, hey, I’ll probably get over it and hopefully learn from it.
I adopted Nemo 4 years ago as a companion dog. He’s held up his end of our companion contract wonderfully. Until I started this post I thought I was doing pretty good on my end…guess not.
He was 18 months old and I was his 3rd home. From the paperwork they gave me I’ve concluded that the back yard breeder kept him for 8 months – probably until she figured out he was going to be way too big for the breed standard. The people that bought him from the breeder kept him 10 months and then put him with a local rescue group that didn’t know what they had. They listed him on petfinder.com on Thursday – I adopted him on Friday and have never regretted it for a moment. I knew what I wanted and it took me 3 years to find him.
I live in a small house on a small lot 2 blocks from the center of a small town. Even before I got Nemo I tried to figure out how to fence my yard and have yet to figure out a practical way to do it. The house is on the corner of two rather busy streets – commuters travel my streets to avoid the stop lights in town so traffic is pretty constant. That means Nemo is never permitted outside except on a leash.
He was not house trained when I adopted him. Getting him to pee in my yard was no problem. Pooping was a whole other matter. I would take what was done inside outside and put it where I really wanted him to go. We sometimes would wander around that area for over an hour….No dice. There’s an empty lot about a block from the house so I started walking him up to the lot. He would sniff around a bit do the poopie dance, I would scoop and we’d be home in less than 10 minutes. This is good. This is what works for him. Once his diet was established he pooped once in the morning and once in the evening – but not always. Yippee! We could establish a routine. Usually 4 walks a day. 2 big walks and 2 little walks.
As time passed and he learned where home was we started to wander further out. Our “quickie” walk is what I call the “church walk”. Across the back yard to the parking lot of the church behind my house, stop eat some grass, over to the end of the block, turn right and go up that block, turn right, to the church at the end of that block, cross the street, down that block to the next corner, turn right again, go half a block, turn left down the alley behind another church, through their parking lot to the street, turn right and walk one block home. Visit the dumpster in the alley if there’s anything to deposit. This is the walk we do before bedtime because it is fairly well lit and I feel reasonably safe at 10 or 11 o’clock at night.
There are few sidewalks on the streets we walk except in the center of town so I’ve always tried to be respectful of people’s yards while trying to stay out of the street to keep from getting hit by a car. I try to stay well within the area that technically belongs to the town….the area along the street where all the pipes and lines are. Here it’s pretty easy to identify because that’s usually where the flower beds and trees stop and the ditch line begins. Plus the town has been replacing all of the water lines this winter so everything all over town has either been or is being dug up. This has added a whole new level of difficulty to navigating the streets.
There is a very nice park in town that we like to walk to and there is a greenbelt that follows the river that hugs the town. It’s a nice place to walk except during the hottest months when snakes are an issue. We can get on the greenbelt in about 5 different places. The closest entrance is only 2 blocks away by way of the empty lot…but that is not an option any more since there is a house with 3 pit bull mixes that doesn’t always keep the dogs contained. Unless I have somewhere to be we mostly aim for the park or the greenbelt. Sometimes he poops before we make it to the intended poop appropriate destination. I try to keep him as close to the road as possible. I use a retractable leash that is only fully extended when we are somewhere that I feel safe letting him be that far from me – that is not other people’s yards. He is not allowed to sniff or mark tires or other things he encounters along the way that don’t belong to him. I tell him “not yours” and he walks on. Utility poles, sign posts and trashcans that live at the curb are fair game. Like I said in my first post I almost always scoop. The few exceptions have been when I could not find it or because it went somewhere I could not get to….into the river (that happened once) or down between two big rocks that I was NOT going to stick my hand down between. I try to make the effort to have him poop where I can easily get to it but sometimes he has other ideas.
Sometimes if dinner is out of the way early and it’s a nice evening my sister, Nemo and I will go for a stroll. These are usually through the neighborhood to enjoy whatever is in bloom. Nemo is always on a short leash unless we’ve stopped to talk to someone. Then he might get more lead if it’s ok with whomever I’m visiting with.
I’ve never tried to be showy about scooping. I almost always have on some sort of jacket that has pockets and the poop bag goes in the pocket until we make it to a trash can or dumpster. He’s a small dog – it’s not that big and it’s in paper towels inside a zippy sandwich bag. When I pass the trash can it goes in – no big deal.
I guess I need to add this disclaimer - I am legally blind – no vision in my right eye, 20/300 corrected in the left eye and have almost no depth perception. I do not drive so driving to the park then going for a walk on the greenbelt is not an option. We walk or we don’t go.
With all of that said, what would those of you that know more about being a good dog owner suggest I do differently to become a more acceptable dog owner and citizen?