dyan
Posted : 7/17/2007 7:15:13 AM
WOW,,what a thread going here. Jumping in really late. Read most of this whole thing,,and to be honest its another one of those threads that finds me agreeing with both sides in different areas. I'm confused right now as to how I would answer this in one short paragraph.
I think if your a PET (only) owner such as I am,, its hard to look at the breeder or show attitude about rehoming your dog.
Bubblegum was a retired show dog and breeding dog..she had given birth to 16 ( was originally told 18 ) puppies in Nov. and I got her in Jan. She had gotten Mastitis and could no longer be used for breeding. Her breeder didn't advertise her..she told me she has a waiting list of people interested in her retired dogs...don't know if I believe her or not. My son works with her husband and that is how I found her. In a house smaller than mine (which is small ) she had Bubby, all of her pups, a brother and father and 3 older pups from another litter. You can not have that many giant dogs in one small house. She SAYS they are family/house dogs...yet when I was there the dogs were brought up to show me from the kennel in the basement. That is not what I call a "house" dog and because of this I don't believe a breeder who says their dogs are their house dogs.
GIVING BUBBY UP,,, I will NEVER forget the day she came to my house for the first time...she never took her eyes off of her Mom. When her breeder sat down, Bubblegum sat right in front of her...faced towards her and stared in her eyes. I said to Pam "how can you give this dog up, she so obviously loves you so much!" Her answer was she is a teacher and each year must let her students pass to the next grade and has gotten used to that. I don't agree to that attitude at all, just not the same thing. To this day ( almost 3 years later ) I think of the way Bubblegum loved her mom...and I KNOW she loves me just the same,,, but she has a much better life now,,no kennels,, no stick up her butt to make her go when she was told,,,no baths in Tide to keep her white. I often wonder,,,if her breeder walked in the door right now..would she remember her??
Bubblegum was free to me...BUT she cost me nearly $500 to spay. How can she be SOLD when the new owner will have to put out that much money. We are talking giant breed here. My choice was a good price for one of her NOT show quality pups,,,or free Bubblegum with the promise to spay. DH wanted the older dog...so we went with her.
I feel in some ways she was abused,, I feel in some way that I rescued her. But it is because in my eyes... and from what some people have said,, I don't think "show life" is a very good life for these dogs. Again,,,that is the pet owner in me,,, not the breeder or show attitude that I can't really understand. It took a good year to get her settled into a life of a pet. Yes she is used to people picking and poking at her..but she doesn't trust them. She will walk with me nicely ONLY if I put her "show collar" on and demand that she walk like the show dog...which I do not because I don't need her almost leaning into me as we are walking. Even though she knew show commands (what ever they are ) I had to teach her to sit...and other

et commands.
To this day,,I don't see how her breeder could have given her up. EXCEPT I think breeders and show people ARE in it for the joy of showing or breeding...they are in it KNOWING they will give that animal up eventually. Kind of like raising a farm animal to take to the fair and eventually sell for slaughter. They have to have a different attitude than people like me who are looking for a pet dog.
If you do take a retired show/breeding dog...I don't think you should expect a dog that will be everything you ever desired..although it could end up that way. You are getting a dog that has been raised differently than you would raise a puppy...and sometimes it will not be socialized even though it comes from a home filled with others. They are usually not being worked with, or really treated like a pet.
I understand exactly where DPU is coming from though... but I would rather see these dogs go to a loving home than lay in a kennel the rest of their lives. I don't see where there is any comparison between this situation and the retired grayhounds from the rescue. Those people are going to get a few dogs at a time and then find them homes..many/most retired dogs never do get homes.