Maxs Mom
Posted : 4/2/2008 12:13:04 PM
Interesting topic. Belle was overweight and we didn't see it. We honestly did not think it was "that" bad. She is a big dog and carried it well. SHE DID NOT LOOK LIKE THAT DOG IN THE PICTURE! When she got KC and gained more weight, I knew she had to "lose some". We took her to the vet she weighed 120 lbs. Once we got her health checked etc and discussed it with our vet she started her diet. She now weighs 85 lbs. I admit she looks awesome, I had no idea. What was fun was some of the people who nicely mentioned Belle was overweight, were also the same ones who came to us and said they didn't recognizer her she looks AWESOME. That meant a lot to me.
The thing with telling someone is they may not want to hear it, and you may wreck a friendship. You have to balance the costs. Same thing if you have a "human" friend gaining weight, it must be approached very carefully.
It is so very true that weight ages a dog faster, increases joint health issues. I like Sally's idea about "someone you know" stories. They might help.
Can you encourage more exercise? Tell the person to come with you on walks? Take the dogs for runs, starting small slowly increasing as the dog is ready? Not telling them why just say you like the company can they join you?
As I type this I had a realization. Belle had NO interest in frisbees what so ever. Then all of the sudden she has become a frisbee fanatic. Do you think that trying to catch a frisbee, and/or chase it down was fun for her when she was overweight? I guess she was probably smarter than I was.
Good Luck that dog seriously needs to lose weight but if the owner doesn't seem to care not a whole heck of a lot you can do.