chelsea_b
Posted : 2/5/2008 6:25:25 PM
I trust Cherokee a million percent with me. She hasn't been at all aggressive with me in years, and even then it was very minor (a growl or two if I tried to take something from her, or move her from somewhere..total resource guarder..but she's over that now). I can do anything and everything to her and I know she won't bite me. That seems arrogant, but it's not. She trusts me, I trust her.
I don't trust her like that with one other person in the world. Why? Because not one other person trusts her like I do. EVERYone is at least the teeny tiniest bit scared of her, and that's make a huge difference to Cherokee.
I trust her second to most with my cousin's 4 1/2 year old. Seems weird, because honestly..Cherokee hates kids. But Alleen is different. She's been around Cherokee regularly her entire life. A growl means something to her, and she knows how to not elicit a growl. She knows how to and how not to treat dogs because of Cherokee. I trust Alleen 95% not to do anything to warrant aggression, and I trust Cherokee 95% not to be aggressive towards her. That 5% means they're supervised, and it means I would never put them in a situation together that could turn bad.
Everyone else has varying degrees of trust, and I accept that there's a possibility that she could bite them. Though lots of them are "sure" Cherokee would never bite them, and get terribly offended if I tell them not to touch her in a certain situation.
Like Cherokee HATES people standing in my bedroom doorway. Any people. Usually if they come in, it's fine, but standing in the doorway drives her nuts. So my sister walks into my doorway the other day, and Cherokee growled. She walked into the room, and Cherokee was seemingly fine, but my sister walked over to try to pet her, and I told her not to. She acted like I was ridiculous, walked a little closer, and Cherokee growled again. All three of my sisters "know" Cherokee wouldn't bite them, so they're really cocky about it. I think that took that sister down a notch though.
(I do realize that my telling her not to touch Cherokee may have contributed to the tension and growl, but the dog was already tense and in a growly mood, so I had to say it. Silly me thought my sister would listen.
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If people would actually listen to me, I'd trust Cherokee with them a lot more, but hardly anyone listens.