Deb
Posted : 9/4/2006 8:15:48 PM
That makes sense. I was speaking to the original question, which was polemical, so I was arguing a side like you asked. I am more for working with a responsible breeder. I think it makes more sense in terms of the whole problem as a big-picture thing.
I have gotten !!!great!!! amazing dogs from shelters. And dogs that I have loved but who have made me prematurely grey. And I had a bad experience. And I guess what I take from that is that it's a crap shoot. Just like getting a pup from a breeder.
But the thing is that responsible breeders don't want to give their dogs to you at first--they will be painfully honest with you about all the reasons you don't want this dog. And finding and working with responsible breeders puts you in a research frame of mind that makes it harder to be swayed by emotion. It becomes a decision that you can really take your time to make. Smartly. And *that* makes for less of a crap shoot. That change in time frame and perspective and emotional distance.
To contrast, every shelter dog I have gotten was somewhat of an impulse adoption. And pair that with the fact that there are honest shelter folks and less honest shelter folks (ie, there are shelter people who will swear up and down that a dog is unaggressive. And then when you say two weeks later that the dog bites, they will nod their heads and say "yup, he bit me too."), and the fact that the whole thing is emotional--going to the shelter is emotional! Who doesn't want to take them all home??????
And I think that makes it harder to make a good choice. Impossible? No. But harder. Because it's all about need---dogs needing homes. Just like pet stores, where dogs sell themselves because they look miserable in little glass boxes. You want to buy them to save them.
My argument is that I am going to be happier removing myself from that equation. I don't want to save a dog, because too often saving a dog comes with baggage (both my own and the dog's). I want to live with a dog.
And people are going to argue with me, but I am going to go ahead and be an idealist. If nobody thought about dogs in terms of need (that puppy needs me, or I need a dog right now, or this dog is going to die if I don't save him), then the market for pet store pups would dry up. And fewer adolescent pups would flood the shelters (secondary puppy mill outlets). And responsible breeders could keep taking their dogs back and participating in rescue. And fewer dogs would die.
And there would still be dogs floating around in need of homes if folks wanted to pay less, get an adult, or any of the other non-need based reasons to get a dog from a shelter.